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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2015 10:14 pm 
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When they ask what you're doing (during daygame), chatting up women seems to be a bad response ?

If they ask if you're seeing other women?

If they ask you if you chat women up a lot (upon you opening them)?

I actually lost 1 girl I was seeing when I told her I was with a pick up coach when I met her (this was like our third date). I assume it was because I told her about that and she probably felt less special or whatever, but where do I draw the line? Do I tell them I'm seeing other women or what?


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2015 10:39 pm 
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I think you can be honest all the time, its just the way in which you tell the girl what you have to say is whats important.

Like saying you're with a pick-up coach is truthful, but theres different ways to say to i.e

"I'm with a coach to help me feel confident enough to approach a cute girl like you"

or

"I'm with a coach to help me pick-up women for my own personal gain"

So honesty shouldn't be a problem, even a slight bending of the truth is fine.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2015 10:43 pm 
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Don't every talk about pick up with girls you are working on.

Honesty? about 5/10


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2015 11:32 pm 
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I would say that you should be 100% honest with women, but only when you've got some rapport between the two of you. If you've just met I probably wouldn't be 100% honest with her if I were you.
Remember that for when you do have to answer to some of the questions you showed, you should answer in a playful way.


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Why would you talk PUA with a woman you're interested in? Are you really that short on conversational topics?


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 9:35 am 
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Total honesty. If she can't appreciate pickup she ain't worth it yo.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 1:40 pm 
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Total honesty. If she can't appreciate pickup she ain't worth it yo.
This is horrible advice. No good comes from telling a girl about pickup.

Mentioning pickup at all should be taboo, unless it literally is your job - then eventually she's going to find out anyway.

I never tell girls I'm into this stuff. Many of my guy friends know, but jeez, you can't tell girls. It's common sense, man.

A girl you picked up who found out you're a pickup artist would simply feel like they'd been taken advantage of or tricked (which really isn't the truth at all...)


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 7:45 pm 
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"When they ask what you're doing (during daygame), chatting up women seems to be a bad response " - How about..

Enjoying the day, going for a walk, meeting new and interesting people..

If they ask if you're seeing other women?

I always say yes about this.. If they ask " how many?" .. I'll just say " how is that relevant?"

If they ask you if you chat women up a lot (upon you opening them)?

I talk to women everyday.

I actually lost 1 girl I was seeing when I told her I was with a pick up coach when I met her (this was like our third date). I assume it was because I told her about that and she probably felt less special or whatever, but where do I draw the line? Do I tell them I'm seeing other women or what?
A woman is never responding to what you say as much as she is responding to the energy you're giving off while you're saying that very thing. Its not the what, its the how, and the "how" is always a reflection of how advanced you are with your internal game.

Losing women is all apart of the game man.. The women that you want around will stay for YOUR truth. The women who you don't will leave. You're not shaping your life after what women will find attractive; its about what YOU find attractive and what you enjoy doing. I'm never going to lie just so someone stays in my life for 3+ months longer before eventually finding out the truth anyway. What kind of weak shit is that? Now there are charming ways to convey your truth but thats a whole other conversation. I'm honest always, but I'm also very charming so women stick around regardless of what my truth is.

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