Hi all, I am not completely new to game but I had a question. I picked up a girl who worked at a extended stay hotel I was at. She started talking to me about my job etc. So I had her put her number in my phone and arranged a meetup for drinks, then she flaked. No big deal, a few weeks later I re-initiate contact and get another meetup for drinks arranged and she agrees. But then before the meetup she texts me this:

"Hey so to be honest, I like to hang out with someone in a group most of the time before I hang out with them one on one. You interested in coming out tonight?"

What is the best way to handle this?

I think she made it quite obvious. You go out in a group first, because that's what makes her feel comfortable.

Go with the group date and then try to isolate her from her friends. If you cannot isolate her, LJBF this one and then sarge other women.

Group dates are great for expanding your social circle and banging more women. When hot women see you hanging out with other hot women, it will be great for your social proof and getting those one-on-one dates.

Don't burn your bridges. Always add to your pool of hot women as friends, fuck buddies, fwbs, girlfriends and what have you.

In your time of need, some of those women will help you with errands, help you in your career, loan you money and/or hook you up with their down to fuck friends. Just keep a playful, fun and non-judgmental frame and you'll do great.

The idea is for you to keep a pool of hot women orbiters.

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The problem is, like you said, that I can't escalate and make out etc. in front of her friends unless I can isolate her. However, I will take your advice and make friends and game other women instead.

Just went through a similar situation and fucked it all up.

This is what you do :

You meet her up with her group (bring some friends if you can) hangout with her, talk to her, vibe with her and her friends, flirt, show her a good time with her friends. If she seems into you during the hangingout in group, then stay the whole night. If she seems to be acting off putting and standoffish after you tried a couple of advances, then goto the bathroom take a piss look in the mirror, smile, come back and tell her "Hey my friends want to go meet sum other friends at another spot, nice seeing ya , take care have fun "

Then never call her again.

But if she was cool and into you, then you are in.

Spend the night with her and friends then invite her out some other time alone, or if she's really into you that night go for the close.

Problem solved

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I took hellhounds advice and it worked out quite well. I didn't really even try to escalate or anything just had a good time and met a ton of really cool people, exchanged 3 numbers.

Nice work..

Never take "group dates" too seriously, just think of them as a possible good night of socializing

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