Hi Guy

I have studied the game for a while and in fact haven't been in this forum in a few years. Only my direction has been in perfecting my game and fix my sticking points. One of mine has always been the deadly FZ. It took up to an old friend on mine to realize that I had to change my buddy attitude and develop a more Alpha mentality.

For the past 3 years I have been doing this off and on with approaches & testing. The results have been the same and in some cases sex was possible but for some reason I can never close the deal. Girl ask me all the time how come I don't have a girlfriend and I'm always confused because I'm trying to figure that out myself.

I play Cocky Funny to hear friend say "whoa, too much" or "sicko". I never let it effect my progress because I know I have to find a medium here.

Anyway, I met a girl 3 months ago at a Convention. We had all the same interest, hobbies & values. My inner game is telling don't get attached to her and just focus but the more I resisted the more we connected. The girls just got out of a 6 year relationship just before meeting me. She enjoys sex with the right kind of people when she has a connection. We talked for a couple of weeks before actually having a date.

Now my goal on this date was to escalate and get her sexually interested. We went to dinner, a bar and even spent time talking for hours. We eventually kissed by my car in the cold with kino escalation leading into sexual contact. I take her home to make out again in front of her apartment to the degree she is grabbing her vagina. She says "we need to stop" and the first thought is she wasn't ready for this yet. I tease her a bit and finally pull away to end the night. We spent 12 hours together for this whole date.

Time goes on and the 2nd date isn't the same. She get a call from her Ex that ruins her mood from my affections. The third date we pick up again with teasing and physical contact but she resist my advances for sex. All I can think of is this Ex really messed up her head.

Weeks go by and she contacts me less and less. Starts to tell me she's dating a girl for fun. On New Years eve we go out again and I notice a lot of texting between her and a guy names Phil on her massive iPhone 6Plus. The ball drops and I go in for the New Years Kiss and she pulls away after. At this point I have feelings for the girl and explain that I want us to get to the next level. The following day she tells me she's seeing another guy.

Confused by this I inquire more. She explains that she didn't feel chemistry with me but does with this guy. I manned up and told her I was interest more than a friend since the beginning. I took some time to get her out of my head just to find out a week later he's now her Boyfriend. She posts on IG and FB of the two of them and this begins to effect me. Trying to remained focused I see her again after I know this. I tease her about a new boyfriend after she confesses it to me. After only a couple month of our dating & 3 after her ex, now she has a new boyfriend?

I decided to move on and game new pretty girls and post pics for them on IG. It has pushed me to not care about friending a girl at all but to only achieve sex. She may come to a party soon that I'm hosting and I might bump into the new boyfriend.

What are your thoughts? Did I get FZ'd or is she playing me as well?

You're too much in your head when it comes to dating man. You're and intelligent guy and its obvious, but intelligent men tend to have the most trouble when it comes to dating. They think their intelligence gives them some advantage in the world of dating when in all actuality it doesn't. Attractive women date dumb brutes all the time because the brutes know how to make them feel good.

To me it seems like you were far to concerned with her life than you were sitting back and allowing her to be more concerned with yours. When you push as hard as you do people naturally pull and its clear you were far too emotionally invested in a clear that was throwing sign out that she wasn't emotionally available to date you.

Women are most attracted to the guy thats most likely to fuck them and never talk to them again. Its the game they like to play into. They want to get that guy to eventually settle down for them, even though he settled for no one else.

You have to be willing to lose her to get her bro. It sounds like you're still in the stages of faking it until you make it - with the over and under protections of pseudo confidence. And thats cool, we all have to start somewhere. I suggest you just drop her. She'll contact you again when he new boyfriend starts acting up. It's all rebound relationships.. And those usually don't last.. Especially not in new york city.

Let me know if you have any specific questions.

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That's good that you kissed her on the first date. Some guys don't even make that move and really puts you into the friend zone because you didn't make a move. However, you don't want to over escalate with her before you pull her into a private sex location, which is what you did in front of her place. You just need to kiss once on the lips and just run smooth game until you go somewhere private and then start escalating to a close. If she gives you LMR, at least you are already in her bedroom and you can just build more comfort and get deeper investment and try again.

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