I’m a senior in high school, and have been getting close to this one girl. I've kept a solid frame and not been needy. We don’t talk much in school, but see each other often when we hang out with mutual friends. Recently, my friends have noticed that we’ve been hitting it off and say that she wants me. Her friends think that we’re going to end up as prom dates also. We haven’t hooked up or anything yet, but she’s comfortable sitting very close together and with my hand on her leg. A couple of weeks ago, we went bowling with friends. Since her car was in the shop and I live closest to her, she asked me to give her a ride and I agreed. On the way back from bowling, she kept dropping hints, saying that she had no plans afterwards, and haven’t eaten since 10 am (it was 6pm at the time). When we were near her house, I said we should go get food, and we ended up eating a restaurant. While waiting for our table, we went and sit in the backseat of my car, but I didn’t make a move as I was unsure whether or not I wanted to pursue this girl.

We didn’t hang out this past weekend, but we were texting on Sunday night and kind of made plans. Here are some parts of our texts (the texts were longer than what I included here and the conversation was longer, but I only put the relevant snippets of each text). As a little background, we’ve watched a few horror movies together with friends and she knows I enjoy them. Also, one of her friends just covers her eyes when we watch horror movies so that’s what we were referring too:

Her: “i’m still waiting to see (horror movie) but everyone’s too scared”
Me: “lol that’s what happens when you try and watch movies with (her friend) who covers her eyes the whole time, but I kind of want to see that movie too”
Her: “Yeahh i know but she’s the only one I can force to watch it with me cause you can’t watch a horror movie alone”
Me: “but she also doesn’t watch horror movies at all so you might want to find someone else to watch with”
Her: “It’s so hard to find people. And I mean if you’re up for it we can watch it”
Me: “We’ll watch it sometime, maybe next weekend”
Her: “I have my show on Saturday so just not then lols”
Me: “Ah ok, maybe friday then”
Her: “Sounds good”


I haven’t talked to her since this text conversation. Where should I go from here? Should I text her today or tomorrow to see if we are going to watch the movie on friday? my text to her wasn’t really clear whether or not the plans were set in stone so I’m not sure if she thinks they are. I plan to escalate to making out next time I see her, and that wouldn’t be too hard if we ended up watching a horror movie on a couch together.

Move, cause she won't wait for long anymore for your move. Ask her to se the movie on friday and make out with her.
Just saying, but do you realize that she basically invited you to sleep with her?

I'm with italux on this. If you two are together, you should always be escalating some way or another. I've been in this habit before. But it's super easy to get out of it. Be less verbal and more physical, because girls respond way fucking better to kino. So next time your with her, literally have her facing you, grab her hand (the hand to your right) spin her to your left while keeping your arm in the air. And when your backs are facing the same way lay your arm around her and walk off with her!

Thanks for the advice, I texted her and set up the date for her house, tomorrow night.

Haha I wish she was, but I doubt it. She's more of a good girl and she doesn't seem like she would be down for sex on the same day that we kissed for the first time.

"maybe friday"

Why are you being so vague and "cool".. Why not say " You free friday?" - she says " yes" .. You say " Alright its a date.. I'll check the times " - she says " Ok.." .. You say " Theres one at 7:10pm and one at 10:45pm.. Pick one" she says " 10:45" you say.. Alright whats your address, I'll come get you at 10" She says " (her address) "


You're being so vague that the possibility of you going on a date with the girl has become vague. Why not just become a lot more clear and concise. Get it done man. Text her now when you found out the times like the text i said above and get it done.

Come on man. You're more assertive than that. Lead.

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Yep, texted her today. "Let's watch (movie) tomorrow at 8."
She agreed so it's set up now.

You have a lot to learn

Women love sex just as much as us men do they are just more secret about it. Also, typically women are not going to invite you over at their house, at night, alone unless they want to fuck you.

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Idk man, this girl definitely hasn't had any sexual experience except for kissing maybe a couple of guys so I don't think she would be down to rush into sex like that. But I'll escalate and update on what happens