I've fingered a few random girls at raves before and they were dripping wet when I put it in.

I've been dating a girl for 3 weeks now and I try to finger her today like 3 different times - dry every single time.

If I can't arouse her she probably doesn't find me attractive despite her saying so.
I'm fucked aren't i?

Explore her body, see what gets her breathing, what gets her tense.

I've had a similar situation but I figured it out, and the thing was that the girl liked me pulling her hair, or playing with her boobs.

There is so much more to making a girl drip than just playing with her pussy.

Your question shows pure ignorance. I'm not even going to take the time to answer it.

first of all sex and shit for girls is almost completely mental.....

best thing to do is to explore her body, key points are her ears, collar bone, back of her neck, lower back and inner thigh.....from my experience, kissing a girl belly button works wonder....also make sure when you touch a girl its gentle, almost as if you aren't touching her at all...make alot of eye contact and smile, make her eel comfortable (especially if its the first time yall did it) also when you finger a girl don't just rush your fingers up there, work your way down.....when a girl gets wet it's because she's getting ready for intercourse...so if you just stick your fingers up there, how is she going to get ready for it? you already did it?


rave girls are drunk or just ready for sex from the get go so ofcourse they're going to be ready for sex

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some girls just don't get wet

It's been said that guys can be ready to have sex in push of a button. Women on the other hand are like an oven. They need to be wormed up. The more and more wormed up they get, the wetter they become.
I suggest you do the following:

1. Get you and your girl in a situation where you both can get very intimate. (Such as your bedroom)
2. Slowly escalate. Start kissing her passionately. So do not go straight towards her kitty. Kiss her whole body from head to toe.
3. Tell her she turns you on a lot and talk dirty to her.
4 By the time you get to her kitty she will be super wet.

I'm assuming you know how to use your fingers properly. If you don't use them the right way, this could be one of the main reasons she doesn't get very wet.

Pretty much just spend at least 15 minutes during foreplay.

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It's not about the manual stimulation as much as the emotional stimulation.

If you are acting in a sensual manner towards the girl, or even just being yourself and giving her your male energy it can be a river down there without a single touch on your part.
Does this have something to do with the bottom of a tequila bottle