been dating a 15year old girl for 4months now,got her virginity at third month have sex again 3weeks ago, but just this week she can't understand herself anymore, she confessed thru text that she still loves me, but she don't know why she wanted our relationship to stop. don't know how to handle this thing man, is this just a product of a woman's changing mind? hate to admit im partly inlove with her and i still want to fuck her since shes still so tight. i really need an experts opinion. is it okay to stop chasing her anymore? i only told her that we will meet to talk and clear things up but she told me she cant face me anymore becoz she cant stop her tears if we'll ever meet again. am i being tricked here? what's should be my next move? i will be very happy for your counsels. thank you so much!

sincerely yours Lloyd from Philippines, 23, beta aspiring alpha male

With young girls they have no developed self identity. Based on this you are better telling her what to do rather than asking.

definitely a peedo troll.

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detox75 thanks man, but what i actually did was push her more and it works but i don't think that my move is an alpha or if it is, it might be very risky.. don't really know how to handle her attitude. but anyway i already saved the relationship but if it will ever happen again, i don't know what to do again.

here's how it go through text..

Me:what's ur problem? lets try to talk this out
Her:i don't know
Me:so you mean we will not see each other again?
Her:i really don't know
Me:okay thanks for everything

*i called and her classmate answered the phone and told me she was crying*

her classmate then ask me what will i do if we really part?
Me: i'll find another woman
HC: what if she'll be back?
Me: i'll be happy

*she then gave the phone back to my gf and everything is already fine*

i hate the nervousness of parting, thanks that i've saved it but i don't really know what will i do if ever it will happen again. i've sensed that it will happen again and i want to know what really is the best move.

Stenic1 i still look 17 or 18 that's why it's hard for me to game with woman same with my age, it's easier here so i'm loving it.. love fucking woman 19 and below. young pussies tastes sweeter you know

The best move would be to grow some balls and at least go after girls who are of age. You're 23 with a 15 year-old. Let me spell that out for ya, F-I-F-T-E-E-N. That's why shes so damn confused and an emotional wreck.

You guys are applying your cultural standards to the Philippines. I've been there, it's not the same.

lloyd..

Stop contacting her.

Just stop.

She will contact you when her emotions settle. She jus lost her virginity; she's emotional. Adding pressure to her is not going to make the situation better. You can't force someone to love you.

Stop calling her. And stop texting her. She will hit you up in 3-4 days or less.

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I stand by my original statement. If we as a people never tried to change "Cultural Standards" that were wrong or weren't working, then we'd be stuck in the stone as a race. Challenging cultural standards is what leads to progress. Slavery (the traditional method, not corporate slavery) was deemed okay by many culture's standard for thousands of years. Don't perpetuate the idea that pedophilia is okay because their "culture" says it's acceptable.

People usually get illogically angry when they're projecting their own issues onto others.

It's actually nature, not something created by culture. That's why you can reproduce at that age. It's not pedophilia, as "pedo" means child and children can't reproduce(by definition). Look to Islamic countries if you'd like to find a culture of pedophilia.

This is whole "you can't have sex until you're 18" thing is a brand new construct, artificially created for no logical reason, just a few decades ago, in America. And even in America, it's a minority of states.

If you find prepubesant children to be as attractive as a 16 year old, that says a lot more about you, than OP.

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It is natural and it is also cultural, they aren't mutually exclusive.

I not sure if 23m/15F is within the social morays of the Philippines but I know it's way more close to acceptable than in the States or Western Europe.

As far as whoever is being accused of being a pederast I think that is strong accusation based on anything written here.

Where im from in the UK its pedophilia. Thats why i say it. Anyone who goes for this sort of age and is 23 has to sort themself out. Fuck culture or whatever, the girl is still a child in my eyes and this is sick people actually giving advice is just as bad. No Deal im out.

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i still look young because i'm short, i'm only 5'2, the girl is even taller than me

thanks Eddie F. i'm using your idea in my other girlfriend now

my instincts told me to fuck woman 19 below for now because i know later in my life, when i will look older, these girls will already runaway from me knowing that i'm already old, so i'll treasure the moment.

Not sure how you got that I was angry from my comment. Probably more disappointed that there's only one other person on this thread that doesn't think this is ok.
12 and 13 year-olds can reproduce as well, so what you're saying is they're free game in pick up too? Since they can reproduce, then you don't consider them children? Get the fuck outta here with that shit man! It's so much more than the physical aspect of it.
Again, no where in my original statement did I say "you can't have sex until you're 18," BUT I don't care what the "cultural standards" are, there is something inherently wrong about a 23 year-old picking up a 15 year-old because, and I quote, "there pussies taste sweeter." And if you all think that helping him in this situation will somehow help him later on in life when he's ready to settle down then I guess the mission of this site isn't what I thought it was. Which is to help improve overall quality of life for men AND women.
This is where I got pissed off, as I cannot possibly understand how you could infer this from my original comment. My only hope is that this a general statement and not directed at me personally.

hey Ricter, thanks for the concern man, u stirred my conscience but i think what im doing is just fine because accdg. to my background investigation about my gf, her mother conceived her daughter at age 15.. that's why i then concluded that i can possibly fuck this girl if i can have her because that's the deeds of her mother before. i just don't let any other man ruin her, anyway i'm not ruining her life, i will marry her sooner if she wants to.