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PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 5:56 pm 
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So this week I've been told by two separate women that they need a break from dating and for now being with a man is out of question. Could this be interpret as a LJBF or it's something women do nowadays?! Couldn't get anywhere with telling them that I don't believe it blabla men are supposed to date women constantly etc. Anything in mind, guys? Thx.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 6:48 pm 
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It's the friendzone. Just get more attraction into your game. Their response "I need a break from the dating scene" never comes from a logical standpoint, it's rooted in emotion. If you make them feel like they want to date you they'll never say it.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 7:12 pm 
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It's her way of saying that she's not interested in you without hurting your feelings.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 7:20 pm 
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That's what I thought. But how do you deal with women that say they aren't looking for anything at the moment? There must be something more than nexting her.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 7:24 pm 
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Yes and no. Basically you next her because you don't want to run around doing nothing, but in essence you just need the situation to cool off for a few months, 2-3 months usually. After that you can come back and redefine the dynamic in your relationship.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 7:29 pm 
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That's what I thought. But how do you deal with women that say they aren't looking for anything at the moment? There must be something more than nexting her.
If it has made it to this point, you should be fixing whatever you do that causes her to say this. Being too eager or seeming to want her more than she wants you is normally how this happens.

Here's the question I have...are these women that have found you attractive at some point and then decided to take a break or are they saying this to you from the start?

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That's what I thought. But how do you deal with women that say they aren't looking for anything at the moment? There must be something more than nexting her.
If it has made it to this point, you should be fixing whatever you do that causes her to say this. Being too eager or seeming to want her more than she wants you is normally how this happens.

Here's the question I have...are these women that have found you attractive at some point and then decided to take a break or are they saying this to you from the start?
One of them I met a few months back, but I have mixed feelings about her. Got off from a relationship and said she likes hanging out with her female friends since then. We've been talking on FB mostly besides meeting her twice. The chesmistry was there but at the same time she seemed reserved. She also invited me to join her and a friend twice, but refused her every time.
Another thing that gets me mad is when making her to qualify, she says "Oh..I'm boring...Nothing worth mentioning...etc". What could I do to ger her talking?

The second one I met through a couple of friends. And she seemed attracted to me, we made some jokes about going out together blabla everyone said we were compatible and she also implied I should add her on FB, but I let her find me and do that. However, the past two days, the interection was pretty solid, but she said the same thing like the other chick and I was like wtf?!
As a side note, when going out with a group, she talked about two guys she has been seeing, but things sucked between them. What got me thinking was that she asked us what do we think about a "guy" that says to a "woman" that he just got off a LTR and for now wants to take things slow.
Probably she's seeing someone else at the moment. That would be my guess...


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2015 9:25 pm 
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One of them I met a few months back, but I have mixed feelings about her. Got off from a relationship and said she likes hanging out with her female friends since then. We've been talking on FB mostly besides meeting her twice. The chesmistry was there but at the same time she seemed reserved. She also invited me to join her and a friend twice, but refused her every time.
Another thing that gets me mad is when making her to qualify, she says "Oh..I'm boring...Nothing worth mentioning...etc". What could I do to ger her talking?

The second one I met through a couple of friends. And she seemed attracted to me, we made some jokes about going out together blabla everyone said we were compatible and she also implied I should add her on FB, but I let her find me and do that. However, the past two days, the interection was pretty solid, but she said the same thing like the other chick and I was like wtf?!
As a side note, when going out with a group, she talked about two guys she has been seeing, but things sucked between them. What got me thinking was that she asked us what do we think about a "guy" that says to a "woman" that he just got off a LTR and for now wants to take things slow.
Probably she's seeing someone else at the moment. That would be my guess...
These are women that are finding you attractive, initially. At some point you are doing something wrong to make them lose interest. You need to identify what that is.

One thing I would recommend is not allowing women to access you through facebook. She is able to learn too much about you without it being through you. She gets to judge you without even speaking to you. It also gives you too many ways of being able to contact her. For example, you send a text and she doesn't respond and then you see she's online and contact her on Facebook, she's going to view that as too available and clingy.

Also, until you've had sex with her, my opinion is to only contact her with a purpose. A purpose would be to meet up with her or you have something that you need to talk to her about.

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Stop trying to make every girl your girlfriend.


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