I used to be into the art but life beat me into a monogamous relationship ,getting back on track now but super rusty.It feels like all the skill and confidence i built over the years has withered away.

I just had this conversation while on a tinder binge.HB 7 lives 6 miles from me and thinks she's hot shit.I would like to know where i went wrong and what i could have done better also getting the HB is not a priority i want to re-polish my game ,all critique welcome.I feel like i might have made her feel too slutty with the getting into pants remark or something.

Me:Long time Whats up ?
Her:Long time ?
Me:Since we hooked up
Her:Never hooked up
Me:We should
Her:Haha is that you pick up line ?
Me:Thats what i want
Her:What ? for us to hook up
Me:Drop me your number sherlock
Her:Gotta work harder than that (some random smiley)
Me:Hard is the only way i work baby
Her:Not hard enough
Me:I save my effort for where it matters
Her:so i dont matter again (random smiley again)
Me:You're the only thing that matters
Me:Once were in bed
Her:
Her:Does this usually work for you ?
Me:You have a bullshit radar ,i like that
Me:First time I've used that one though
Her:Hmm again i dont believe that
Her:You're too easy to figure out
Me:I find being honest usually is an easier way to get into a girls pants
Me:Like an open book haha
Her:Yeah not this girl
Her:Nice try though

I did not reply after this ,felt like saying 'so you fuck guys that lie to you ? ' but thought better of it.

Thanks for reading through and replying if you did guys,peace out.

Have you ever had results with this approach on Tinder?

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This is one of the first few conversations i have ever had on tinder.Am i not going about things in the right way?

Tinder is about hooking up, but girls don't want to feel like sluts in the process. At least give her some wiggle room to think she's "just meeting new people".

Even when a girl you don't know, agrees to meet up at your place(where it's basically implied that she's going to have sex with you, barring something odd), you're going to see your success rate drop off a lot if you literally say "Come to my place, we can fuck". That's what you're doing here.

If you want the female psychology bit, here it is. She hasn't met you, and can't tell simply by looking at pictures if she wants to fuck you. She needs to meet you and hang out for at least a few minutes. If she likes your pics, but not your vibe, she doesn't want to fuck. But if she already agreed to fuck, now she's lying. And you also have a chat log of her agreeing to fuck you. Which you can show to other people. Which ruins being discrete.

Make any sense?

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These lines are far too cheesy and generic.
She can smell you want to fuck her just by the lines your using !!!

I've had plenty of success of tinder sometimes by being cheesy. The main line i go down if you want them to be dirty and crave you is simple -

Me - so why you on this silly app?
her - Just to meet new people or my friends bullied me into or some other BS, You?
Me - well im on here for a really naughty and open minded girlfriend.

Boom as soon i say that they totally change delving into questions and asking me whats naughty to me etc...
Then i end up fucking them.

Dont be so cheesy.

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Ok no that totally makes sense ,my attempt to get her horn on didn't go too well.Im more accustomed to chatting up girls that I've previously fucked or have had some chemistry with.

Haha getting her to think about sex was the idea my friend but point duly noted, gonna cut down on the cheese.Ive gotten a few matches today lets see how it goes.

Thank you both for the wisdom you have bestowed.

This is a conversation a mate had on tinder a few days ago ,anybody have an opinion on this ?

Sorry the pictures have been posted in reverse chronological order.

lol amateur moves. Tinder game is easy. To get a girls number is pretty simple i normally go with this -

initial convo boring shit bla bla bla..

me - do you have SPAM ? this tinder app is absolutely shocking keeps freezing and shit !
her - yeah i do. (if shes keen she will just fire her number over if not use next line)
me - well heres my number message me over there so i can get to know you a bit better.

i dont think i've ever done this and not had a message. Basically you giving her your number shows your confident enought to tell her how it is. Your giving a valid reason to exchange numbers because the Tinder app does suck for messaging. If she refuses dont push too hard - just say - fair enough here was me thinking something exciting was about to happen ! lol

If you need a hand with any tinder/messaging game or whatever give me a shout happy to help.

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LOL. Basically this. Why do guys think asking girls for sex straight up is an efficient way to get sex?

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Alright mate i can see where you're coming from ,just tried the 'what are you on here for' line and girl seems to be responding well.Yeah i will do ,thanks for looking out bud.


I dont think that ,part of the reason why im on here trying to ask for help and better my approach.

Yeah totally agree dude loads of guys think being cheesy and funny or just toally upfront will win you chicks. Truth is it only works about 10% of the time lol. Just go with the basic stuff i said and expand on it !

You will get on fine no ones judging you here dude.

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Jeez you really are rusty.

Can you imagine walking up to girls in a shopping mall saying "do you want to hook up?" - do you think that would go well too? - same for tinder

Call it direct, call it mode one bla but I call it lazy, self sabotage and inefficient

Cat string theory. You gave the cat the string on your 1st message

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I honestly cant tell you how many girls say this on tinder 'all guys are after only one thing' this to me screams out I'm happy to fuck you just dont make me feel like a slut for doing it...

the cat string theory is exactly right tease her with the string then you'll get to fuck the pussy !!!!!!!

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Word

This is one of my copy and pastss that I like to use to help with the filter process:

"Are you on Tinder for:
1) attention seeking ?
2) looking to smash and dash?
3) looking to date?
4) looking for a husband?
5) you're a cat fish ?

Choose wisely "

Most of them say 3 obviously, some even say 2/3

Regardless. I have had girls smash and dash on me despite their original #3 answer

Reading between the lines and how often and how fast they respond to you is a better indicator than what the girl actually says

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Thats a pretty good paste ! has the funny element of catfish but kind of forces them to open up about their intentions.

I like seeing what they say to when i ask them. Most of the time its 'my friends pressured me' then i just say are you a sheep etc and tease them.

Definitely right in a girls response time and also lengths of messages. If its one word replies chances are she's not to interested !

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