I would like to thank the entire community for this. (Other forum too)


It was 2011 when it happened. My first love broke up with me. My heart fell through my butt. I was lost, clueless, desperate. You name it. Kept calling my ex while I was drunk, or I wasn't just calling I was bothering her because believe or not she was the only girl in my life.....no girl "buddies"....nothing.

It was the beginning of 2014. Still this girl in my mind. I needed help but my friends were sick of listening to my stories. After few hours of researching I found this community and even at a first glance everything from no-contact to openers made so much sense. I just couldn't accept the fact that I could ever find anybody better than her....I was still...blind. Move on? Really? How?

My friend told me about tinder. I decided to give it a shot. My looks game me a lot of matches but my game was so off that I got Rejection, rejection after rejection. Then I browsed through this forum. I got the info but I was lacking Experience a lot. So my face to face game was still awful. So that meant more rejection.

I became frustrated. The ex in my mind just wouldn't go away and I knew about this stuff and I somehow always f*cked it up. I was more nervous approaching and talking to girls than ever. I decided to keep going. Researched more info and watched some vitalyzdtv (lol) and something clicked. This guy is just walking up to girls and not giving a damn what they say. He is so straight forward that this must be it. (Be careful with this, I don't want to come off like a jerk) Combined that with some put knowledge (thank you) I started seeing the light. Confidence is the key.

I went to a nightclub right after this and got good conversations with girls and got my first k-close! It was a huge confidence booster for me. As days went by I got dates and numbers and finally got my first f-close!! Everything just fell into places. For instance, I used to play sports. Whenever I had a good game I wanted everybody to watch me. This same mindset happened here. Whenever I walked up to a girl I felt like "watch me I'm the best". Not only because I felt confident but I also felt very comfortable. More k-closes and more f-closes. Progress is clear, week by week, day by day.

I met this HB 10. Try to kiss her but she turns her head.

She says :I don't do one night stands".
I: "I'm not just some one night stand"

Thanks for "99 no's and 1 yes is a yes" mentality my response was so quick and I didn't shit my pan*s. I got the kiss. I still remember her saying "you don't care you just keep on going". Got a f-close too. Few weeks later she also became the first FWB that I had ever had. A HB10 who gets hit by A lot of guys.

I still got rejections too but my mindset was that 100 rejection and 1 success is enough. And don't ask JUST TELL THEM. This also made those attention wh*res to stay far away from me.

Me: I'll be at your house in 2hrs
Attention bitc*: you don't talk A girl like that
Me: thank you for doing me a favor for letting me know what type of girl you are

She messages me 3 days after that we should see each other. I never responded


I kept on gaming other girls until I realized that my FWB....this is it. She is what I want and I am what she wants. She made my ex look like the WORST THING in the world. This girl makes me food, discusses arguments in a very mature way, apologizes when needed, treats me like a king and she gave me a BJ in public. Last week we became exclusive. I DID IT. I raised from the bottom to the top. I had made it!!! Or to be more specific pua knowledge had made it!

Thank you for all the "move on" "find a new one" "there are plenty of fish in the sea" messages. Without those I'd be still crying after my ex. Thank god I did read them.


You guys saved my life.


English isn't my first language so I apologize all the spelling mistakes.

Well done bro ! glad to see you found your 10.

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Thanks man!