Hey guys,
So I've been with my girlfriend for about a month now but we've decided not to do anything that involves dropping our pants (save the comments on that, not helpful). What I want to know is what can I do to turn her on given the fact that anything like fingering/going down on her is off limits? Any links to articles or videos is greatly appreciated

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"Pain is temporary, but pride is forever"

Wow man... The power scale in your relationship looks like a chump. Don't say "We've decided" She decided...

Anyway, a nice trick I use when a woman stops my hand from going into her pants is dry humping (what we referred to in elementary school as cloths burning) When I first penetrate a girl I go in hard and slow. You can place your pole where her vaginal opening would be then push as hard as you want since she has cloths on. Only do this for a few seconds. Then rub on the outside or whatever. This will only work if you have strong erections, don't do it if you're a weak dick mother fucker as you will look like a fool. I usually employ this strategy while in the middle of the make out session.

It won't work for you because you don't have the balls to pull her pants down when the opportunity is right. It's a very small window, and the dry humping will bore her after a while and kill the attraction.

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Wait, what??? You can't avoid the conversation about your agreement of not dropping pants. This is the main problem that you are having because it's become your obstacle. It's obviously not an agreement that you want, so it sounds like something that you've agreed to and it's of only a benefit to her. Now you're at the point of trying to use "techniques" with your own girlfriend so you can get sex without even talking to her about it.

So to my point of my not helpful comment. You deserve to be in the type of relationship that you want to be in. If you accept relationships that you don't want, you're going to continue to do that with all of your future relationships. Eventually, each of these women will view you as weak and they won't see value in your character as a man. If you're weak they won't respect you. If they don't respect you, you won't be able to keep them.

So here's your technique. Tell her you don't like the no dropping the pants agreement and it doesn't work for you. If she doesn't like that, there are plenty of women that are like her that would not be opposed to dropping their pants.

I'm telling you this now so you won't have to learn the harsh lesson later.

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What's the point? Why are you even wasting your time with this girl? She clearly doesn't want a sexual relationship with you otherwise she wouldn't have said that... or you're 12.