& how should I have handled this?

At a bar last night, was chatting up a woman when buying a drink but turns out she was with someone. She goes to sit down with her friends (and boyfriend) and I go back to mine. I see her tell the guy she's sat with (friend) about me and point to me while smiling, so I wave.

Later on I saw 2 nice looking girls who had been on their own for ages. I tell my friend and he agrees to wing me. I get up and go start chatting to them, my friend hasn't followed (later finding out it's because he was self conscious about some sweat on his t shirt or some shit) but it doesn't matter as I'm doing well with the girls. Maybe 5-10 minutes in that guy from earlier comes over and is like 'Hey Clocks, you alright' or something (I never spoke to the dude, he was just told about me from the girl I chatted up). I shake his hand, and he introduces himself to the girls. They ask how we know and I said we just met that night and it's a bit awkward for a minute. Anyway he starts talking to the girl he's closest to (which is the one I wanted), so I start talking to the other again. I do try and talk to the one I like a bit but I didn't do it consistenlty. Anyway, the girl I was chatting to left to go to the toilet and I left rather than add myself into the conversation of other guy + girl I liked.

I chat to other people later and then come back to them as I'm about to go and reopen (he's been there whole time - like half an hour). I felt a bit like an outsider at this point but chatting went ok. Other guy may have tried to AMOG me with some comment about my glass (had a beer glass with handle rather than little glasses like everyone else), but I brushed it off. Saw it was dead, said goodbyes and left.

Looking back I'm guessing I shouldn't have left when the other girl went to the toilet? But what should I have done? I don't want that happening again

If the other guy was writing this from his POV, it would have made a great field report.

What you could have done differently is when he came up, you step in between him and the girl that you wanted while shaking his hand. That would have made it difficult for him to go for her and would have left the other girl for him.

But your wing screwed you.

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Ok, next time add yourself to the conversation like you said, if you have a target just figure out how you can keep adding yourself to the conversation, dont go down without a fight lol.

Being a good conversationalist can help in this scenario.

Here's what i would have done

Im in 2 set, guy walks in, starts talking to my target who's on the other side.

Immediately my ears perk up, i listen, and i include myself in the conversation + include the friend + include whoever is around, then i push the conversation into isolation between me and my target, very smoothly transition to a personal question and position myself next to my target, now depending on how good he is, im assuming his an average guy with no game, he'll just move over and talk to the other girl. And there you go. You've won the attention battle, now build attraction + comfort and make the magic happen.

And yea, in your situation, when the girl went to the bathroom, i would have just weaseled my way into the other dudes conversation(this takes social calibration) very smoothly, and done what i said above

Dont get stuck with the girl you dont like, manipulate conversations in your favor, that dude was an asshole
but he outplayed you.

And about the AMOG, no worries, dudes love to amog, you have to be bulletproof.

I'm not going to go into details here about how to AMOG/Handle amog but ill make a video about that soon because i personally love to AMOG/hangout with alot of AMOGS and i know quite a thing or two about that.

but my advice for amog, *ignore em* focus on target and good vibes, dont let em get to ya

Good luck

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You could have just talked to the guy. I don't think he "amog'd" you.

Shit man... if I'm talking to a girl and her friend, I'm HOPING that some other guy is gonna come up and try to start talking to the friend. I'll help him honestly by asking him questions about himself so he has a chance to look like a cool guy. Then he'll do the same for me.

You need to spend more time hanging out with cool, normal guys who are good with girls and not "PUA wings."