The Power Of Knowing What You Deserve.
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I had a friend in high school who was an american exchange student. Being the Canadians that we are, we welcomed this slightly overweight kid into our group and involved him in all our activities. One day during walking through the school overpass a few of us were talking about future wives and what we expect from them. He confidently said "I deserve the hottest girl there is". A few of us were baffled because, though we respected this guy, we never thought he'd get himself a HB9 or HB10. He wasn't what we were programmed to believe would be successful with women judging by the way he looked. This was 10 years ago.

Now this guy is 24 years old and living with one of the most attractive girls I've ever seen in my life. Shes average height, blonde hair, beautiful eyes and a stunning body. Even her voice is seductive and more importantly, the way she looks at him makes me heart sink. Truly a beautiful thing.

It's taken me some time to really embody what a positive attitude is what how it can effect your interactions, your career, your friends and your women. From a young age without even looking too critically at himself, this guy seemingly knew what was waiting for him. He knew what he deserved and therefor demonstrated complete confidence and control once this woman was placed in his vicinity. Earning her love and trust.

Personal Growth And Abundance Mindsets.

If a certain situation had proven itself to be unconducive to your personal journey of becoming the strongest version of yourself. Leave it.

If your girlfriend is showing signs of self-destruction and is being unappreciative of your time and efforts. Leave her.

If your boss thinks its okay to call you in Saturday after Saturday and you're the only one in the office on those days. Quit.

If your family or friends have continuously disrespected you even when they know your limits as a individual. Leave them.

The most powerful place to negotiate from is a place where you're willing to walk away and mean it. When something happens to you that is negative, think this sentence: "If I was in a mind frame of complete abundance, would this still piss me off?". Almost ALL the time, your answer is going to be NO and you will be able to see the situation objectively. In the grand scheme of things, there's millions of jobs. Millions of potential lovers. Millions of interesting people. Never get hung up over one situation that is holding back you're happiness.

Know your worth and what you deserve.*

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Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."

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_________________
Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."