I feel like my SPAM has only hindered my game. Has this happened to anybody else here? In person everything works out awesome, but i'm not nailing the Text game at all it seems, because the girls seem to be losing interest (i think). I met this girl a week ago (at work) and she "asked me out" so we go out for drinks tomorrow, so I wanna amplify the game.

I work a lot, so I can't be on the phone the whole time and it makes me go to texting a lot. Therefore, when I meet a girl, we'll have fun and then move on to SPAM a lot. There's lots of conversation going on there, but I feel like its not helping my game at all. Generally it looks like anything Online only hurts my game, so I wanna improve that!

Any tips, tricks, or guides that I can read up on to strengthen it so that she'll feel more curiosity and attraction?? Text less?? Texting games to keep the fun coming?

Look at this post

Stop texting so much. Simple.

Think about the way you text your guy friends... You don't have bullshit, chit chat with a guy you just met.

It usually goes something like this...

"Hey dude, what are you up to?"

"Not shit. Bored at home."

"Feel that. Come through."

"Cool. Be there in 20."

It's only more complicated than that if you make it more complicated than that.

Yeah I've been reading and i'm definately doing that wrong!
Is there a way back? I know she's still interested, but we've been using SPAM way too much and I'm getting the feeling that my power's going down the drain!