Hi guys I really need some help..

Basically I have nobody to go out with on New Years Eve

I have been on a few dates with a girl lately, she will be going out in our local town but will be with all her friends. I'd like to see her but I can't just turn up on my own, that would look so lame. Especially on New Years Eve

I need to find someone or some people to go out with but I'm feeling stuck...

You don't need to go out with a girl... Go out with some buddies. Surely your guy friends have plans. You don't want to fall into the self-confidence hole of thinking you require a girl to be happy.

Alternatively, lots of bars and clubs offer New Years packages... go and celebrate the new year if you like that sort of thing. Try to pick up. Pretty easy excuse to kiss close a girl.

You would only look lame showing up alone if you're actually lame bro. And if you're worried about looking lame; that could only mean that part of you actually thinks you are lame. You need a stronger frame bro. I don't give two shits how many people I show up with. The party doesn't start until I show up; whether with friends or with by my damn self.

You want this girl more than you want your own self improvement and that where the problem is stemming from. Fuck her. Go alone so YOU can develop into a stronger person. This is about YOU, its not about you attracting some girl. Go out alone to develop your ownself and people will gravitate you.

Crying and feeling sorry for yourself will only lower you into a position that you're trying to climb out of. Grow some confidence and courage and just go anyway. Do it for the experience and make the most of it.

Tell us how it goes.

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Fuck yea ! couldnt have said it better, is your reality bruh, make it count, the mind is a strong thing.

Come from a good frame of mind and you shall succeed.
It helps to laugh at yourself in these situations
Everytime i go out alone is a FUCKING MOVIE.
I have a blast, from the minute i get out of the car alone i say to myself "HHAHAHAHA WTF IS THIS HAHA, HOLY SHIT IM NERVEOUS, FOREVER ALONE WOOHOO LETS DO THIS !"
It gets to the point were im having so much fun with my internal dialogue that it just draws people in

I see some girls on the street and i think to myself "Hahaaaa here i go, mister solo dolo gona creep sum bitches out!" and guess what, they end up liking me and we end up having sex.

Funny how shit works right?

THE POINT IS, HAVE FUN Build Your Frame Of Mind , allow it to help you win.

Good luck

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Go out and hit on bitches. Go to trashy bars because the expensive ones will make you pay to get in, especially on NYE. Oh yeah, go out alone if you have to.