There is a girl at the company I work for who I think is pretty cool, and I planned on asking her out. I think there is definite chemistry, and when I was at the pub with colleagues, and I was talking to her, 2 mutual friends came over at various points and teasingly asked if they were interrupting a date , and her best friend came over, and at one point asked if I had a girlfriend, which may have been a set up....obviously I know none of this is definite etc, but I like her enough that I'd be interesting in getting to know her more intimately.

However, next Friday, she goes on holiday to India with her family for a month. I'm in a bit of a tricky situation. Do I make a move now and strike while the iron is hot, have 1 date , but then not talk to her for the whole month, or do I wait for her to come back, so I can build momentum through successive dates?

Strike while the irons hot!

If you go on a date she is far more likely to remember you when she comes back than if you didn't!

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Just wait..

If you're skilled enough to close on the first date then go for it(if thats what you're looking for), but if this is the girl you WANT. Let her go to India, focus on other girls and other aspects of your life and when she returns you will be in a better condition, mentally physically, and emotionally(if you work at it) than you were before she left. Let her return to a new and improved version of you. Make progress.. Ask her out when she comes back and plow forward from there.

Some guys will suggest just going for it, because she could meet another guy; but a woman can ALWAYS meet another guy, whether you're with them or not. So I say be patient on this one and focus on you until the moment presents itself.

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Looks like I'm going to have to wait....I haven't seen her since Wednesday as she has been on courses, and I think it would be a little weird if I walked down a floor to her desk and asked her out.

Definitely not going to close her before she goes, as she is of Indian origin and still lives with her parents.

Should I worry about any attraction she has towards me expiring while she is away...or do you think that the attraction is at such a base level, that it would be more effective for me to let her forget about me (i.e be focussing on other things) and have her (possible) attraction re-awoken when she comes back and sees me again?