Congratulations, you've managed to approach a girl, wow, you guys had sex? Ain't that amazing...
Oh... You've started a relationship... Wonderful !

....You said what? It didnt work out??? ... Really, she was the one? Holy shit man i feel you're pain...

Let life take its course, let the cards fall as they may... This is the darkside of pick up

Emotional distress and break ups

Heres a video on how to deal with it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_cqChj9 ... g9YDyq9y8A

Now tell my guys, when was the last time you suffered from what seemed to be the end of a great relationship?

and how are you now?

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Great Post Dtrak, and great video,

Breakups are a very important part of pickup and little talked about in the community.

One quote from Tyler and RSD boys is that you cannot become a real great Pick Up artist without having
your heart completely shattered from a pickup. Because once a guy bounces back from that devasting
breakup he becomes incredibly good because he no longer relies on women so much to make him happy.

Here's another breakup video that I watched many times.
"After break up you will rise from the ashes and go to a level you never thought existed"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06UnHtD1ZbY

Thanks ! Glad you liked it !
And cool, tyler is one of my favorite PUAS of all time, everything he talks about is absolutely amazing and i highly recommend his shit.

Yes i agree, after a break up guys useually come back stronger after the period of grief finishes, because indeed they dont rely so much on women (external validation) to make them happy.
But what happens is, we are "Solid" then we get into a relationship and all of that "Internal toughness" starts to wither away, some more than others, we loose ourselves in the relationship, which is fine, to a certain degree, we must all embrace love.

But then it/if it ends, we are left devastated and shattered. Feeling weak and helpess. Because we had that external validation for so long. Is fine to have a companion/woman/relationship and to fully GIVE, thats true love.

Dont loose sight of your (INWARD) innerself, keep that tight, and all your relationships will come from a good place because you dont need, you dont take, you simply give, and in turn you'll recieve all that external joy you've always wanted without really needing it. And that my friends, is a beautiful thing.

For whatever reason, if your relationship ends, and you cant fix it. By all means, try to fix it. But if you just cannot fix it due to the situation/circumstances, end the relationship leaving the girl better off than how you found her, by all means try to end in good terms. Don't be mad, vengeful, seek any sort of pay back, thats the ego trying to delude you from what truly matters.

Be a loving caring person to you and to others and your life will blossom.

Good luck to everyone who just ended a relationship, and is partaking in one right now, stay strong and make it work !

oh and may i add, befor anyone gets it confused : This mindset will bring more sex to your life than you will ever want, believe me.

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You don't. We are men, men suck it up and move on.

Amen brother, i wish it was that easy for everyone.

Having recently parted ways with a beloved, i say there is a period of grief that can be pampered with the right mindset/focus on the right things. Because as we all know it, life must go on.

But yes, indeed, you are right, unfortunately we humans have something called emotions, and they can be a tricky little nagging whore sometimes

Growing up i was a victim to this phenomenom we call "Negative emotions" and i survived. Not only did i survive my own bullshit, but now i feel good helping others out of the same bullshit.

Amen Hallelujahh

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