How do I handle this? How would you handle this?

I'm in college and I'm living with 4 other girls. One of them is my GF(long story short, were in a open relationship kinda). The other girls don't know were in an open relationship and see us as a normal couple. We room with one other girl that I've always found a bit attractive. I kinda suppressed those feelings because she had a boyfriend. Now they are broken up and she has increasingly become more friendly with me. How do I make a move on this chick. I feel like there is a lot of variables to consider before I should make a move.

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What's up Tyler.

Sounds like your in for a great time at college, living with 4 chics. I spent a ski season living with 6 girls, and it wasn't long until they were all falling out Let the good times roll!

You say "We're in an open relationship, kinda". What does that mean "kinda"? You really need to lay the foundations with your girlfriend from the beginning. You're the man, you make the rules - if she sticks with you, great, if not...Well you wouldn't be in this situation right now

Although you are attracted to the girl, she could be seeking some sort comfort with you. If you provide that to her, great. However, things could potentially get very messy if you make a move on her. If you all live together, no doubt it will create a lot of tension and jealousy, and it is possible that your home environment becomes more like a battleground.

Keep us updated on your situation. It's a difficult situation, and if you came here seeking permission to make a move on here, you won't get that. All I can do, is give you my perspective on the situation, and allow you to make your own informed choice.

Is a threesome a possibility here?

^This is actually the best way to go.

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I second this.

One night, the 3 of you are hanging out... if you're all drinking a bit, it takes some of the awkwardness away. Don't get so drunk you can't get it up.

It's really about setting yourself up for success.

Obviously... You've gotta get both of them in a room alone with you... Which you said happens every night anyways.

So... "Let's play poker" is my favorite way to get it going.

"Oh shit... we don't have chips. What else could we bet with?"

"I've got an idea... we'll just play strip poker!"

And establish some rules. Maybe one article of clothing ante. (This is more about ignoring the fact that you just said "strip poker." Assuming they are cool with it. And moving things forward. If done right, the girls won't question you at all.)

Then... Honestly... once the clothes start coming off, if you can't close that deal, call me and I'll come fuck both of them for you while you watch in the corner

Make it happen bro. Hope that helps.

You could tell like ghost stories and shit, anything that gets everyone intimate and close. Idk it doesn't seem too hard to win this game

You're right, there are a lot of variables to consider before you make a move.

Like waiting until a month before you're gonna move out to make a move. The dynamics of sexing your roommate could hit the fucking fan fast, such as jealousy issues of the other roommates for starters.

You want some sidechicks, just find them out in the world.

You have to live and get along with these girls. Don't shit where you eat.

All you guys are right, Here is some more info you guys should know.

1. The reason I say we're kind of in an open relationship is because the last time we DTRed it was established that it was an open relationship. however, her condition was that I try to be as discreet as possible. I have brought up the idea to her of introducing another girl into the relationship or having a threesome and she hasn't totally denied it. She says she would fool around with another girl but she doesn't know how she would react to me fucking another girl. How could I smooth out these kinks?

2. Living with 4 girls, sounds like paradise right? Not really, 2 of them aren't really that hot(they're also the jealous cock block types). And they're all the busy types: always studying or working. Rarely do they have leisure time and none of them really drink. The girl I'm attracted too might have more leisure time but she used to spend it with her BF. However, there is something about her style and some of the things she's told me that makes me wonder if she's always been this way.

First she used to have a lot more piercings, including a tongue piercing and a belly piercing. When I asked her why she took them out her literal response was, "cuz that's just not me anymore". I tried to ask her more about her past but she didn't say much. She's from LA. I forgot to mention the guy she was dating. He is this poor guy who is whipped to the max.

The reason I'm hesitant to make a move is like one guy said, I don't want to shit where I eat. Also I don't want to compromise my relationships with the others and turn my home into a battlefield. Threesome is always a possibility but I don't know if my GF or the other girl are that adventurous, may be with a little social lubricant they'd be more open to the idea. What is the key to success here? Where do I start?

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The key to success is your girlfriend. Obviously, she has to be on board. If she can't handle the idea, you can't go through with it. The fact that she told you that she doesn't know how she would react to you fucking another girl is a real problem, because she is going to have to see your roommate everyday and live with knowing that you fucked this girl. There is no way you can guarantee discretion if you just fucked her without your girlfriend.

To me, this one seems like a lost cause. You have too much to lose here.

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Not at all. Been there before. I learned a ton about women and life through that experience. Such as they shit, piss and smell like ass when they get back from the gym. They're human.

Yeh dude. Go for the threesome and then see how quickly it turns into a fucking disaster when you are completely ignored and the two girls get it on. Happens ALL the time. Play your cards right and this will happen to you. Childish cunt.