Hey guys?

So, I have been living in a backpacker in Auckland. And I like this place because you can meet people from the whole world.

Yesterday, at night, I could met one girl from Japan. Her English skill is far from beginner, she can understand better than speak.

When I arrived in the room, I introduced myself to her, and another guy. I talked with both. I did some jokes with her, and she laught. Before I go out with some friends, I invited her to hang out with us. And she agreed.
She changed fast, and we left.

In the middle of way, I found another girl the is from my room as well. She was waiting for her friend. When her friend arrived, I invited both to join us and they agreed. We went to one club . In the way to go to the club I was talking with the Japanese girl, and touching her. I touched her hand, shoulders, waist.

When we were in the club we dance close, but always side by side. I touched her as many as I could. Hold her hand for a moment. Touched her waist more than one time, shoulders. I tried do some kino escalation.

After two hours dancing, I told them to go out to eat. Everybody agreed with that and we went to eat.

We spent some time there. I talk about a lot of different things. We had a got time there. Then we moved to other place, to try find other club open. We we arrived there was close. We went to another place there I told to go. But was closed as well.

So, in a way to back home, to our backpacker. I told to the other guy and girl that I wanted show something to the Japanese girl before go back home. A told them to go first, and we would meet them later. The Japanese girl agreed with that.

We went to the pier. I showed some places to her, tried to do one Mystery Trick, but didn't work as I expected. Try do a compliance test (the trust game) but didn't work as well.

I felt that if I try press her to kiss her, I would lose her for good. So she was really tired, and I thought could be good we go back to the backpacker. In the way to go back she was almost of time far away from me, and once that I tried touch her back, how I did a lot of times before, she started walk faster, and didn't allowed that time.

So, in the way back to the backpacker I just tried fill the gaps with small talk.

I got her number. But I don't feel that's is means something.


So I did kino;
I bounced her;
I made her laughy and had a good time.

So, what I did wrong?

Thanks guys

Hey man,
I wouldn't have taken so many trips to all these different places, although relocation is good and a great way to give that kick back into a conversation and interaction it can get weird if you bring her to too many spots. What I would have done differently is after you saw the first club was closed is tried to bring her to your or her place and close. There are many ways to do this, I probably would have said " hey I just realized something"
Her- "what?"
you- " we ate but never had desert... I have (some random desert) at home and its AMAZING! lets go back and ill let you have some of it if you're a good girl"
now at this part she might hesitate and try to get out of it, a way to get her to stay with you would be to say something like " whats the worst that happens...,you have a fun night with a fun guy?" or "its okay, trust me"

Hope this helps,
Justin

I see. I thought could be good. Once I listened Mystery saying that is good go with a girl to different places at same night because make you look like a old friend, someone that she knows for a long time. She will remremember that she was with you in a lot of places. But I think that in this case you are right.
I'll try this next time. But as I told before, I live in a backpacker, and she was my roommate. So, in the end of night we went to the same place in the end of night, but, unfortunately for me, different beds.