So, ill start with the back story. This girl i met on a night out last week at a club I got with her in the club then i convinced her to come back to my house after where we had sex, and then more sex in the morning. Added her on facebook and she left her ring at mine so we arranged to meet for coffee and I would give it back. The coffee date went really well then after I asked her to come back to mine as I have gone on Christmas Holidays from Uni my house is a train journey away she had college late the next day so thats why I asked her. She said she cant as her house mate is making her a meal, after that we hugged and she went her way I went mine. How do you think it went, and should/when should i text her and what should I text her. So for some of the bad literature wrote this in a bit of a rush.

Uh, maybe she didn't come back with you after coffee because her roommate was making her dinner... exactly like she said?

Just call her or text her in a day or two and ask her if she wants to come over... say you'll make her dinner.

thanks, you dont think I came across as abit direct do you saying "You want to come back to mine and chill"

I come from the Corey Wayne school of thought, which is "let the woman do the choosing".

I would have given her a kiss on the lips after the coffee date (why not? this is a girl you fucked twice already) and then told her to let you know when her schedule becomes free. When she does contact you again, make a definite date and sweep her off her cute feet.

I think reaching out again when she last told you she has other plans might be a little too much. After all, you're a high value male with many options...right?

Let her feel that its okay to come to you when she can, and romance her properly when she does.

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Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."

I kissed her on the cheek when I first met her for the coffee date, will defiantly take that advise for the next date. I would say she thinks im pretty high status im pretty good looking, plus shes been to my "my parents" thats pretty big and posh house that she was amazed by when she came home with me. Should I contact her at all if she does not message me within a day or 2? And what would should i say?

The optimal way to leave an interaction if she couldn't make it to your previous invite: confidently say okay let me know when you're free because I would love to take you out, and kiss her passionately. It lets her know that you're a man of action but not of neediness.

If you've built enough attraction thus far, she will contact you. When she does, give her subtle DHV and flirt with her, then tell her you're taking her out to XYZ on XYZ day.

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Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."

Next time a woman leaves something at your place, give it back to her when she comes back to your place to get it