Hey guys! My name is Luka and this is my first post and thread, but Im not new to the whole gaming thing. Ive also been checking the forum from time to time over the last two years.

I have a question regarding a specific situation I am in. Ill try to explain everything in the next few sentances.

I have a female friend, lets name her girl A, and she has a room mate, lets call her girl B. For the last month or so we were hangin out together at thier place. We had fun, Im a sociable guy and most girls like me. So after a week or two girl B and I were getting closer and closer. From her body language I could see, especially over the last two weeks, that she is fond of me. The gestures were subtle and she was somewhat shy (maybe because of my looks, dont want to brag, just trying to give full insight on the situation). So last sunday she chatted me up on FB, but I didnt see the message (seen the message on monday) cause I went offline rigth after I logged in. She asked if I have time for lunch on monday. I did have time but wrote back that I dont and that we can go have lunch tomorrow or go for a drink in the evening. Since I didnt have her number I gave her mine and told her that she can text me if she want to meet. She did text me and I called her latter that day and went to her place. So we were smalltalking and moved to the couch and watched a show (White Collar). After a while I start with the keno test. I play with her hair, move to her neck etc. Latter she leans on me (I hope thats the correct phrase, English isnt my first tongue) and I hug her, we cuddle. Now, this is where i might have messed up. I didnt push on from here but stoped and we didnt go any further for the rest of the evening (just cuddled). Since I had to go to work the next morning I went home.

Previously this tactics worked with other girls and they kinda liked that I didnt go all in the first time. All girls were hot (7s and 8s) and had other suitors.

What confused me was that yesterday I text her if she has time for coffee or lunch and her reply (after almost three hours) was that she has some work to do with her classmates (she is still a student) and has to go to work in the afternoon. To that I text back that we can meet after she finishes work. She replys that shes has to wake up early in the morning the next day. From her replies I had a feeling that she isnt interested or something simillar. She might have had a bad day. Dont know.

My thoughts are, either she is angry that I wasnt more agressive and pushed on to have sex, she just had a bad day or shes playing me.

What are your thoughts? How should I continue or salvage the situation I brought myself in?
I think that the best thing to do would be if I back away for at least a week, give her some time and space. If shes still interested shell contact me. Another idea was that I could use one of the girls that Im also flirting with and am meeting this weekend to post some pics of me and her (thats girl C and she like to post pics of things she is doing...i know its crazy, but...shes hot ) on FB. This could make girl B jealous or at least show her that I have other options.


Sorry for the long post and thanks form the asnwers.

Answered your own question.

Girl is throwing herself at you and you say "gotta leave, bye!"

Get her out again (your place or hers...) Create the same scenario - couch and movie/TV... And don't be a pussy this time... That's how you salvage it.

In the future, instead of posting such questions here, go to the source - ask the girl! I would call her and ask if I messed up, if something doesn't feel right.

Agree, I was a total pussy. I already tried to meet with her two days after (that was yesterday) and she said, as I wrote in the first post, that she has to wake up early in the morning. She worked until 11PM yesterday, same today and over the weekend and I have some work out of town over the weekend and will come back Monday.

So I cant really get her out before Monday.

I could call her today but wouldnt this be AFC behavior? Personally I think calling her today or in the next days is a bad idea as we cant get together anyway.

And Im meeting another girl on Sunday anyway so there is really no need for me to rush it.

I do however plan to call her on Monday and set the same scenario. And if she does not want to, then I can ask where I messed up etc.

And I didnt push on because I didnt want to make her think I am needy.

Ok heres the thing... Girl seems very interested, you meet up with her one night, you didnt fuck, whatever.
Wether you have sex or not doesnt matter, what matters is, did you show her a good time?

Did you guys enjoy eachothers company?

SEX is a result of a good connection, or of a deep desire for it.

Me personally, i always push for sex on the first meet, sometimes i get it, sumtimes i dont.
But i always try. And there is a way to try that doesn't fuck up your chances of seeing her again.

Who knows, maybe she was dissapointed you didnt fuck her, or tried to fuck her.

But anyways, that doesn't matter, let me get to the point because wether you fucked her or not is not the point

even tho you should work on your "close" game

Anyway, what i noticed is you are coming up with negative assumptions right away

The next day you text her, she took long to text and then texted you an excuse and all of a sudden you are all but hurt and think she doesnt like you?

wtf is wrong with you man (haha jk, i've had does exact same thoughts as a noob)

Anyway give the girl a chance, i call it my favoriteeeee PUA lingo

The infamous "Three times rule" haha

What this means is, you trust your self, the cat is in the bag

You give the woman 2 shots, 2 chances at meeting up (your a busy man)
If the excuses seem legit and you guys get along, heck ill give her a 3rd 4th and 5th chance if she seems legit
If i feel she is wasting my time ill move on QUICK

At NO moment do i play stupid games like trying to make her jealous
At NO moment do i assume she doesnt like me
At NO moment do i waste mental energy on bullshit, im a man of options
Your either in or your out

anyway i hope i addressed you issue

so my point in a nutshell
-Dont be so quick to jump to conclusions
-Assume she is attracted
-Try at least 3 times until is for sure she doesnt want you
-Sex is not everything, connection/good vibes will bring the infinite amount of vagina
-But work on your "Closing" game is not that hard anyway(even though it has nothing to do with what i think your doing wrong)

As a man you must always grow

Good luck bro, and keep at it, play it cool and rok onn

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