I have a friend who isn't a PUA but somehow girls are just magically attracted to him. He is musician and is a very talented singer and he is attractive but no matter where we are or what we are doing girls just magically come to him and are attracted to him and want his number! At first I thought it was his looks but we have been at parties where its super dark and girls will come over and just dance on him and ask for his number! he is a good guy and has a serious girlfriend but he loves the attention. Do you guys know how he does it ? I ask him how and he just says it always happens he doesnt know why either! hell even my ex- was coming to my room and having conversations with him and she never talks to any of my friends. But I realized I want this type of skill he has! I want to learn what ever he is doing because it works it's just me or him don't know what hes is doing ? any ideas from you guys ?

Oh, hell yes I know.

He's a musician and a talented singer? That means he is used to expressing himself on stage.

That means he is not afraid to express himself wherever he is, no matter who's looking.

He is able to exert an emotional energy that girls just FEEL right away. Guys have a hard time understanding this because we're generally not as in-tune with our emotions.

I've played in bands for several years and that taught me a shit ton about pickup not because "chicks dig guys who can play guitar," but because chicks dig guys whose emotions aren't stifled by social programming.

There are many ways to become automatically more attractive to women and that's just one of them.

what are some others i'm very interested ? and how do I get more in-tune with my emotions ? because it's really is just an amazing thing to watch happen no matter where we are or who we are with it never fails girls just automatically attract to him.

Check out this clip with Julien. I suppose it's the mobile version of youtube though, since I used my phone writing this. I hope it will do.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=24SL_QEmVVI

great video. i think julien right on in this one. for once, a video that is not controversial that got him into trouble recently.

anyway, the point is that a "natural" just has a positive energy and vibe that is attractive. i like to say, "you don't attract what you want, you attract what you ARE", if this makes sense. law of attraction type shit. but it's true. when you feel confident, fun, and at ease, it somehow rubs off on other people that makes you attractive.

inner game, confidence and your lifestyle - having fun regardless of whether or not you have a girl in your life. just be an awesome person, and you will automatically draw in people into your reality.

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Andy

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