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PostPosted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 10:40 am 
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So Wednesday I go out clubbing with a friend of mine for a few drinks. After the night was over we headed outside to call a taxi to get back to our student halls. As we were waiting there, out of nowhere this group of three girls approaches my friend and what i understood was, they wanted to share the cab with us. The friend that i was with certainly isn't a looker nor he has any game and judging by their body language i reasoned this will be a friendly taxi ride. One of the three girls however was stunning. Considering the circumstances i though seducing her would take some doing not taking into account how drunk i was. Though i don't remember much what i said, i remember breaking through her bitch act and and receiving many IOI's.

When we got out of the taxi she hinted she was cold and she didn't resist when i held her. This is were it all started to go wrong. Walking back to our halls my friend wasn't interested in talking to the other two girls so he interrupted us and constantly kept talking while i began to feel so drunk i didn't even want to speak. Before we went our separate ways she refused to give me her number.

Not sure what went wrong but i want to see this girl again. :?:


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 12:40 pm 
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Before we went our separate ways she refused to give me her number.

Not sure what went wrong but i want to see this girl again. :?:
Huh?

There are so many confusing things here.

Your thread title says "She seems attracted to me" but you also said "she refused to give me her number."

Since she refused to give you her number, there is obviously no reliable way to see this girl again, but you're saying that you want to see this girl again. It's something outside of your control but you're still dwelling on it instead of moving on to the next girl. What?

Sorry if I'm being too harsh, but this sounds like a pretty bad combination of a delusional ego and a scarcity mentality there, brah.


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She lives next to my building in student residence halls at uni and though i don't see her around i know some of her friends and she came up on suggested friends list on FB.

I mean my reasoning is that she was in to me before i fucked up and went quiet (though i couldn't help it) and i didn't close properly because i was too drunk. Maybe you are right with the scarcity mentality but what i am asking is, is it worth it having another go at it (risk looking like a creep on fb) or just move on.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 2:08 pm 
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If she won't give you her number, she's not attracted. Girls give out their number like candy.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 2:35 pm 
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She lives next to my building in student residence halls at uni and though i don't see her around i know some of her friends and she came up on suggested friends list on FB.

I mean my reasoning is that she was in to me before i fucked up and went quiet (though i couldn't help it) and i didn't close properly because i was too drunk. Maybe you are right with the scarcity mentality but what i am asking is, is it worth it having another go at it (risk looking like a creep on fb) or just move on.
I was confused with your original post, but think I understand the situation better now.

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If she won't give you her number, she's not attracted. Girls give out their number like candy.
What Versalis says is true most of the time. However, there is a possibility that she didn't give you her number solely based on the fact that you were drunk and she didn't want to feel cheap by being just another forgotten number in your drunk ass's phone.

The next time you bump into her, engage her like an old friend, apologize sincerely for how drunk you were that night, and express genuine curiosity and interest in getting to know her better while incorporating whatever attraction techniques you know (there's lots...just pick a couple).


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 4:02 pm 
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First off, you said you were drunk... So the amount of "creepy" feeling this girl was getting was most likely off the charts.

And going out with a guy who you said yourself has "no game" and relying on HIM to handle TWO GIRLS for you... and he can't even figure that out... so he goes for the girl you're going for... How can you not see where you fucked up?

1. Stop drinking

2. Stop going out with guys who are hurting you more than helping you


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