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She lives next to my building in student residence halls at uni and though i don't see her around i know some of her friends and she came up on suggested friends list on FB.
I mean my reasoning is that she was in to me before i fucked up and went quiet (though i couldn't help it) and i didn't close properly because i was too drunk. Maybe you are right with the scarcity mentality but what i am asking is, is it worth it having another go at it (risk looking like a creep on fb) or just move on.
I was confused with your original post, but think I understand the situation better now.
All hope is not lost.
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If she won't give you her number, she's not attracted. Girls give out their number like candy.
What Versalis says is true most of the time. However, there is a possibility that she didn't give you her number solely based on the fact that you were drunk and she didn't want to feel cheap by being just another forgotten number in your drunk ass's phone.
The next time you bump into her, engage her like an old friend, apologize sincerely for how drunk you were that night, and express genuine curiosity and interest in getting to know her better while incorporating whatever attraction techniques you know (there's lots...just pick a couple).