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PostPosted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 2:21 am 
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Well....

This happened two days ago. Went to a friends reunion where I was told there'd be a lot of couples and no single females (Nothing else came up). As I arrived I spotted a decently pretty girl, say she was a 7.5 and also two alleged models with make up that made them look like freaks (With ok bodies).
I noticed the 7.5 started asking me questions from across the table and conversed with her to the point where she was interested. Then we procceded to the drinking games and she automatically positioned herself beside me. She had her hands in her pockets but touched me a lot like out of nowhere... it was a clear go. And since she was the only genuinely attractive female, EVERYONE noticed. We where close and guys would tell her jokes about it, the house owner was an afc and he told shit like pour her a drink man and that sort of stuff... The point is, she got uncomfortable with the extra attention, closed herself and I wasn't gonna chase her and lower my value so obviously.

So my question here is what should be my take on this next time.

Hurry with the extraction? Display more aggresivenes on the first sign of intruders?

P.S: She got my name and added me to FB.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 3:18 am 
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You should have addressed directly in front her and everyone.

To host:
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I don't know what you're thinking. You can pour her a drink if she looks thirsty. I'm just here to have a good time. What are you thinking?

To other guys:
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Hey, can't you see you're making the lady uncomfortable? We're not in a pickup club here.
To her alone:
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Please excuse these people. I'm really just here to offer congratulations to my friends. I guess some guys here never had a mom to show them the ropes of behaving around women.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 3:26 am 
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Right, exposing everyone plainly for their being assholes and keep the girl comfortable.

Thanks man!

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 4:04 pm 
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It's a social gathering bro.
People just want to have fun.
Clearly the girl was into you, and you were into her, other people are just being other people.

Keep having fun and vibing with her/flirting, tease around and vibe with others.
If she gets uncomfortable because of others then just play it cool and make her comfortable again by reassuring her everything is okay and simply being the man and knowing how to handle being social.
It's a friends reunion for gods sake, not a pick up artist reunion.

Vibe with friends, show her interest back, solidify the number and the attraction. All whilst still interacting with everyone.

I know, it sounds hard but is not, it should feel natural.

Anyways, it all seems fine, she added you on facebook, you should invite her out.

Play it cool and close.

Good luk

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 5:30 pm 
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Dude... what more do you need to see in order to open your fucking mouth, grab the girl by the hand and say, "Come with me. Let's get out of here."

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