Ok, so I'm going to try to keep it short without making it to long so you guys can help out as best you can. Let me start from the top!

First point of information: I'm 21 in college fresh out of a 1.5 year relationship so I'm second guessing my self because I'm a little rusty.

So there is this girl that I would see on campus from time to time that I was waiting for the right opportunity to approach well it came 3 weeks ago at one of my frat parties. Basically after approaching the night ended with me walking her to her dorm and talking outside for about 45mins. While we are talking I'm pulling every trick out the hat to kiss her or for her to let me go to her room with out be too aggressive. The convo ended with her saying she doesn't kiss "strangers" and I said I respect that(This was such a turn on!!!). So I #closed and said ill take her out sometime.

Over a two week period of us texting I noticed her response time is slow so slow I would only get a few text a day. Most of our texting consist of light flirting and basically me trying to set up and on campus hangout like lunch in the cafe or go to the gym together. Now we are in our last month of the semester and I know she is busy with classes and she is a Biology major in our premed program and I know that gets hectic. But after two weeks of us texting I set up a date with her.

For I date I figured the mall would be best for two broke college kids. Basically the Date date went REALLY WELL, my game I feel like was on point. First we eat and talked, I took this time to figure out where her head is at after our first encounter. I also used this time to build value and attraction with cocky funny something I feel natural at. At the end of eating she said how all guys have egos and I explained why then she she said jokingly while smiling "Your kind of cocky in a cute way" and I say "I think it's well deserved". From there we walk the mall we first go to Spencers we look at some of the sex stuff to get the idea in the back of her head, she actually admits to reading 50 shades of grey. I neg her a bit for her lack pf knowledge of Bob Marley and Rap music because she told me she was into that when we first met. As for Kino i think I went well, putting my arm around her after negs and poking her stomach for joking on me. As the date goes on I noticed she start hitting me and touching more and getting closer to my face and body, she is 5'1 and I am 5'7 so she is right up under me. She even took me into Victoria secrets and to this one store that had greek life paddles that I smacked her in the ass with when she provoked me to do not thinking I would do it, in the end she smiled. So before we left I asked her did she still consider me a "strange" she said YES jokingly so I pretended to be mad and walk away from her and she followed and I started yelling that there was a stranger following me as we leave the mall.

Finally I bring her to my suite for her to check it out. After some push and pull and some seduction we slowly start making out. I pull away first the I pick her up and throw her on the bed then we slowly start making out and I would pull away first again waiting for her to start it up again which she does. Her roommate was calling her to get back to go out that night, so After kissing I pulled away and said let be a gentleman and take you to your friends and she say "Your kicking me out already" so I say "I knew you wanted to stay long". After I start to kiss her stomach, rib cage, neck and garbing her hips which she cant keep still at this point. We do this until she is ready to leave after which im ok with because at this point I dont mind stopping with kissing. So I drop her off and she kisses me then almost leaves the car then comes back and kiss me again and says something slick and I smack her on the ass.

I invite her and her friends to my frat house but by the time they get there its almost 3 and everyone is drunk. Then I had to break up a fight and she and her friends leave without me knowing because they dont feel controllable. Now here is where my problem starts.

She will start texting me then on an average convo then she will stop and not text back or text me first the next day. Based off everything I thought we was vibing so I don't see why she would do this, IDK if she is playing hard to get or just busy. I would really like to see her before winter break so she don't forget me.

Right now we are on Thanksgiving break I was planing to text her this to call her out on it. Hoping the convo will go this way.
ME: Stop.
Her:Stop what?
ME:Thinking of me

OR

ME:You know I can't figure you out?
Her:What do you mean?
Me: You make out with me feel all up on my body and don't text me back. Your such a player.

Both ending with me setting a date 2!

What Do You guys think any advice will be appreciated.

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Here's the thing. I hope no one gives you advice on this. You've done so well to this point (although I don't think you should've played the gentleman card) and you know her better than anyone else here. Neither of your text messages sound needy. Pick one and go for it. You've done great up to this point.

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The gentleman thing was kinda a way of pussing out... She was horny man. And you didn't give her what she wanted. Now, she's getting it from somewhere else.

That's a big, hard, engorged cock and a man who knows how to use it to make her feel like a goddess... You let her down.

In a Disney movie... sure. Perfect date. Good job. But not in nature. You pussed out.

Don't send any of those text messages dude please.

You're playing right into her hand.. Chill the fuck out.

Seriously.

Just wait dude.. She likes you and is trying to make sure she isn't taken advantage of. So slow down.

Let her come to you. Don't text her anything for right now.. If you don't hear from her in two days pick up the phone and call her.

But slow down.. please.


She likes you man; stop working harder than you have to.

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Is all good bro, but i notice you seem alot more needy than she does. Cool out, have more chicks in your life and send her a casual text later to see if she wants to hang. No big deal. Yea she kissed you? now she owes you something? Common bro, play it like a boss. Cool out, have more girls in your life, and they will all fall on your lap and chase you. Be the prize. Girls sense when they own you, and she owns you. lol.

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I understand the allure of a good text game. I really do. But to me, less is better. Set up a #2 date. DON"T be afraid to get too sexual or push too far. Just set up another meet soon and then after that see if she contacts you before then.