So, over the past few months i've been experimenting with pickup mercilessly. I have met a lot of girls, had plenty of sex, and now i'm ready for a real relationship. Right now, there are two girls who i'm considering for the position. I am 27 and one of these girls is a very pretty 31 year old hispanic attorney who I picked up at my job. She has a great personality and looks amazing. Very curvy body and she has an adorable face. She often wears skirts and heels, which is sexy. She's very adventurous like I am and we openly talk about what we expect from each other should we continue talking and try to date. I love the open communication with her, however there are two problems with her:

1.) There is baggage. She's not entirely over her ex. I know she likes me, but I am concerned about being a rebound or getting close to her and then having her change her mind and go running back to him.

2.) Her availability. She works a lot and it's very hard to see her. The past three days I didn't call her or text her and didn't hear from her at all, though she responded when I finally texted her. Sometimes she doesn't respond to my messages at all. I just chalk this up to her being busy, but just wanted to throw it out there.

Any suggestions on how to deal with her?

I will write about the other girl in another post. She is a bit more complicated.

The Leading Man

My 2 cents...

You need to build her attraction to the point that she does not care about her ex-boyfriend. You need to consume her every thought. If you can get her IL (interest level) through the roof, her ex will not be a problem.

If you are being a nice, pleasant, thoughtful guy...you're screwed. Remember, girls want excitement, fun, CHALLENGE and drama....these are the things that keep women around. Notice my emphasis on being challenging. If you truly are banging women left and right, then you know the game. Just keep it up with THIS girl also.

As far as her availability is concerned, be very careful. You are already adjusting to HER frame. She is either truly busy, or her IL is low. Either way, she needs to know that you find her attractive and are interested, but do not NEED her. If you don't talk to her for 3 days, 4 days or a week, or cares. You are a successful man with your own life and interest. She can either fit into your life or not at all.

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