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oxyclean321
PostPosted: Sun Nov 23, 2014 6:21 pm 
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if chick opens on tinder saying "hey" should i let her lead the conversation or take over?

letting her lead would require her to invest more however shows im not a leader?

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Dude just respond already and start leading. Don't worry, if she wants anything, she will follow.

I mean, yes, you could leave everything to chance and hope she leads you on, but what's the point? Even if you got laid it's a bit beta/due to luck.

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Dude just respond already and start leading. Don't worry, if she wants anything, she will follow.

I mean, yes, you could leave everything to chance and hope she leads you on, but what's the point? Even if you got laid it's a bit beta/due to luck.

nono ofc ima respond lol, i just want to know if i should take the lead in the convo IE ask questions, ask for her number...ect or should i just follow her grove as she has sent the first message.
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if chick opens on tinder saying "hey" should i let her lead the conversation or take over?

letting her lead would require her to invest more however shows im not a leader?

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Well 'hey' isn't exactly a banner opening... but it's something.

She likely sent it to all her matches, cause guys won't always make the first move on the 7 if they've matched with 20 8s...

Chat her up - say 'hey' back - and see if she's interesting. If she is, keep going and lead... if not, drop her.

The fact she opened you isn't really a big deal. I mean, you're both there to meet people...
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I do not have the strongest Tinder game as it is hard to exude a natural charm through a screen but you need to keep her upbeat and interested. Make her speak about things that her 2000 other matches will not.

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I usually let them lead for a lil bit but they usually have no idea what they are doing so I naturally take over so things can move forward. Try both options man, its just tinder and theres lots of girls. See what works for you.

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I do not have the strongest Tinder game as it is hard to exude a natural charm through a screen but you need to keep her upbeat and interested. Make her speak about things that her 2000 other matches will not.
my charm is much better hidden behind my keyboard!

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I do not have the strongest Tinder game as it is hard to exude a natural charm through a screen but you need to keep her upbeat and interested. Make her speak about things that her 2000 other matches will not.
my charm is much better hidden behind my keyboard!
Really? I am quite the opposite. I'll make a girl fall hard without saying much to her at all in person. The keyboard gets boring.

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