Hey everyone, I have known this girl for some time now and I really like her a lot and she knows because everyone is telling her that. I haven't said anything though because I figured that would be a bad move.

So this past weekend I had a party at my house and when she first came she was all excited and happy and talking to me she even asked to meet my sister and mother who were upstairs while i was having this party and she seemed really happy about everything. So everyone started drinking and I had gone out for a smoke at some point and my buddy was telling her that i liked her or something like that her response was. "Everyone keeps saying that, he hasn't said anything to me though." Although I have taken her out one on one and assumed these were dates. She also kissed me and showed me her ass at her birthday party a couple of months ago and is always all over me while drunk. I also bought her tickets to this play she wanted to go to and she seemed excited about that.

I had almost convinced her to stay over night at my place but she said she would only stay if her friend did and her friend needed to go home. She did seem like she wanted to though.

So later on my buddy drove someone home and it was just me and her sitting on the couch and she asked me to give her a foot massage. So I did, not sure if that was a bad move or not. We started talking about personal things I asked her about her passions in life and all that stuff and I felt that we were connecting. So later on my buddy came back and then they all left shortly after. As they were leaving I asked her if she wanted to grab sushi on Monday, she said "If I'm not working, yeah". Monday came around and she didn't message me about it so i figured she was losing interest.

Also my buddy told me that on the way home she was complaining about her past relationships and how she wasn't ready to be in one now. When he told me that I got pissed off with the whole situation and have no idea what's going on. Sometimes this girl is looking for my attention and wants to talk with me, and other times she acts all stand off ish and tries to avoid me. What I want to know is how I can get her to want me all the time and just be straight up with me regarding if she is interested or not, how can I go about this and what do you guys think of the whole situation? Thanks everyone! Any input is appreciated.

I'm getting the impression that this is a girl that will respond more to physical affection than anything else. Quit talking so much to her and do more kino. Start kissing her and make her feel like you want her sexually. Don't ask her out or buy her anything else. Treat her like a FB. She may not obsess over you, but she'll want more from you after that.

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