I haven't had much time for game lately, I've been working sun up to sun down staying focused on business. Recently, I had more free time and decided to hit up a girl to hang out.

I hung out with her before and it was a one night stand, that's another story though. When I texted her, I sent her, one or two texts and went straight for the meet up. I'm continuing to define my game in a very humble way... After studying a bit of seduction, I realized I should add a bit more temptation - what are good ways to do this?

1)I don't understand if there should be a bit of talking first. What would I say. I didn't know how to approach it - what's the best way to set up a date with a girl you've ready seen aka a system.
2) What are good ways to not be so easy and be more tempting and just immediately going after something. I do it cause I just don't care but I rather be strategic.

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When it comes to sexual temptation, women are also visual like men. The difference is really quite slim; almost negligible in fact according to well respected researchers. The major difference with men though is that aside from physical looks or physical sexuality, women place a higher value on personality (dominance) but that does not mean that they are not visual creatures at all.

So how do women tempt men without coming off as too easy?

Red lipstick, make up, hair conditioners, hair color, plastic surgery, Daisy Dukes, mini-skirts, skinny jeans, push up bras, underwear with butt padding, hair rebond, silicone breasts... Take all of those things out and an HB10 will easily drop to a 7.

I posted a picture of me just wearing my underwear on Facebook and my Top 10 Profile viewers immediately changed. The +20 something girls got bumped down to Top 11s and Top 20s while the 17 to 18 year old girls got bumped up. This means that younger girls are hornier.

Of course, by now, you already know how to accentuate your cock with shiny things like Johnny Depp, David Beckham or Cristiano Ronaldo.

You can accentuate your butt too.

Do you know how it feels when you're interacting with a beautiful woman and you notice that behind her dress her nipples seem to harden? The fact is, women feel the same way as men do when they notice a very attractive man's cock harden as the guy is interacting with them.

Researchers have been fooled for a long time with interview type surveys among women. Based on what women said that turned them on, it appeared in previous research that women are very different from men. But a woman researcher proved most of those old studies wrong when she placed devices in women's vaginas to measure wetness on certain visual stimuli that spiked up sexual interest.

Women's pussies got wet when they saw hard cocks although the women research subjects kept on insisting that they were not turned on at all but were 'offended'.

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Thanks for your post, Hellhound, I might have seen some of those tests you mentioned. Albeit, mainly what I'm discussing are tactics for guys verbally and over text or in person. My sentiments are mostly in the first OP.

I txt a girl to hang, I go for the meet up very quickly and wonder if there's a better way to do it: How can a guy be more hard to get and ideally, when texting a girl what's the proper way to go for the meet up. I might post the convo soon, if it helps.

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I used to do this all of the time and it almost never works because you're going into the text with the idea of getting something and not with the idea of trying to give something. Chicks are intuitive and they can pick that up faster than you believe.

I remember when I would be bored and so I would text about 50 girls from my phone with the intent of a " 1-2 text and then ask for meet up " - The results? 0 out of 50 girls would be willing to go out. Its liking creating a fire in the woods and then walking away from it for weeks. There fire goes out, does it now? And you can't just walk back to the old fire and just blow on it 1 or 2 times and expect it to ignite in flame again. You have to put in some actual work to get the fire up again. It won't be as hard as before, because the foundation has already been laid out; and the tools to create the fire are probably laying where you left them. So now you just have to give some wood/leaves, and recreate the spark. Old flames go out man; we can't just expect them to jump back on fire without any giving or any effort.

So I wouldn't say that temptation is necessary so much as reigniting a emotional spark. Go in with the intent to actually have a good conversation first. Its selfish to think someone that you haven't spoken to in a while is just someone to jump up because you want them to. Especially not a one night stand. You have to put actual groundwork in. And if she ain't worth the ground work than she ain't worth your time.

Girls begin thinking " Whys this guy contacting me out of no where? What does it want"

Girls buid from the bottom to the top; guys build from the top to the bottom.. They want to know the WHY before they here anything else.

So lets say you hit her up saying " Hey, I your name in this magazine and just thought about you. How've you been!?"(or whatever made you think of her- be honest)

That sets the emotionally tone of building from the bottom up. You tell her WHY you contacted her randomly first. Guys don't care about that stuff but girls do. Now once you give her the why, she'll all yours if.

Just remember to start from the bottom. It doesn't matter to us it matters to them.

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