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Hey guys, I've been reading a lot of the posts on here and you guys are all amazing. Personally, I want to be the ultimate man and game perfectly - although, I find it difficult not knowing how to act with woman - as in which characteristics I should portray. I get lost very easy when it comes to opening, attracting them and texting is always difficult.
My inner game needs work too, my online profile doesn't get many hits and I sort of think it means I'm not attractive or whatever enough. I'd really would like to learn one-on-one from one of you guys here. Just a friend occasionally, helping out another friend. I'd like to chat on SPAM or email every so often when we both have time - and it's convenient for you. I'm very lost and you'd be doing me a world of kindness. Thanks!
If not at least tell me what I would need to incorporate to get more woman. Polarity, push/pull etc.
Three things:
1. Gain information
It sems to me like you are pretty lost... This, like anything else, will take some work to master. Start gathering information in order to know what you are supposed to do. Read some of the basics, like The Game or, yes, Mystery Method (yes, I know Mystery is a disguised freak spitting precanned lines. No, I am not saying you should do that. But if you read his book and take what he says with a grain of salt, you will see that the guy made some brilliant analyisis about how social dynamics work and I consider that to be some pretty valuable framework). Also, this forum has some golden posts. It has helped me a lot with my inner game.
2. Work on your looks
I mean, providing you aren't doing it. Get a haircut. Work out. Make sure your hygiene is impeccable. Look, and specially the self confidence that come with them, go a long way.
3. Take action
Do not overdo the entire reading posts, reading books and posting on this forum. In the end, what will really change your life is the amount of action you actually take. Without it, you will never develop a style of your own or come over as authentic. Go out there and TALK to people.
Oh yeah, also, don't worry too much about your online prophile. Depending on the site you are using, it's a girls market, really. Oftentimes, and specially when it is rather hook up oriented, unless you are some of the very best looking guys out there you will get very little attention, specially since it always is hard to convey personality over there.