So I just met this extremely beautiful girl tonight when I went out tonight. She is one of my friends sister, turns out she is in a abusive relationship. She kept venting about how crazy her boyfriend of 1 year is and how he abuses her physically she says he slaps her in public, and how he once choked her. I honestly don't know what the hell she is doing with him. I just want to know what are good ways to get her to notice me right now I know that she isn't attracted to me but I know I can change that. how should I go about this. I know this isn't PUA but maybe I can apply some of the same techniques. She needs a REAL MAN.

She's got low self-esteem and is addicted to the emotional spikes she gets from the drama and abuse in her relationship.

You have to pretend to be as much of a "bad boy" as her abusive boyfriend if you wanna stand a chance. Pretend to be an abusive dick without actually being abusive.

After you steal her away and actually get into a relationship, you can pull back the mask and be all like HAHA I TRICKED YOU! I'M NOT ACTUALLY AN ABUSIVE DICK. lol

Or you could be like "You inspired me to change" or some romantic shit like that.

Anyway, that relationship won't last, either. She's addicted to negative emotional spikes (I guarantee she will cheat on you) and you're better off finding a girl who's addicted to positive emotional spikes.

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If she has a pattern of dating guys like that, then yes. On the other hand, it may just be that he's very good at getting her off. Girls will put up with almost anything if you can give her a good hard fuck unlike any guy she's had before.

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RSDTyler

Some girls just like to be abused man. If thats what a relationship is to her (maybe her dad abused her or abused her mom?) then thats what she's going to gravitate towards. I know you want to be Captain Save-A-Hoe but just realize she probably "likes" to be treated that way.

Or, like said... he's laying the pipe properly.