Girlfriend of several years has a friend who I want to get with. Lets call her Amanda. She has a boyfriend of 6 years but they fight alot and she goes out and is willing to do borderline cheating type stuff with other guys because they have a crappy relationship. Amanda has been jealous of my girl in the past and even hesitant to introduce my girl to her own boyfriend. Also in the past I have met Amanda's mom and she has said I was so confident, so nice, ect., so the mom DHV'd me. Amanda even told me GF twice that her mom said this about me.

Me, my girl, amanda along with another chick went to a movie the other night. I give her a hug at the start of the night and flirted a bit. We get out of the car and walk together in front of the other two for awhile. I sit next to her there. At one point she lightly hit my arm after I said something outrageous. She also tried giving me gum she had just chewed to throw out, sneaking it in my hand as if it was a new piece. I let my leg touch hers and she didn't really move it for a good amount of time. She also told my girl that since the lady next to her was so big, she was "on top of heavylifter the whole time" and that "the lady had to pick up OUR garbage (meaning me and her)

I kept the flirtation going after that, and my girl afterwards even got a little jealous saying "you and Amanda had your first date"

We went to Amanda's birthday party the next day and she said my name a few times in a group with me right there, trying to strike up conversation, but nothing crazy.

So as it stands, I see Amanda probably once a month if that with my GF. The one thing: she has a Facebook, and I'm not friends with her on there. She would probably tell my girl if I friend her, but maybe not. Regardless, things are on a high note with her, so how do I proceed?

Facebook her? Ask her to go christmas shopping for my girl top secret then make a move? Obviously I'm not very serious with my current girl.

You've been dating your girl for several years and yall aren't serious?

A bit odd but ok.

Sounds like this chick would be an easy lay.

First off, add Amanda to facebook. She's a genuine friend as far as your gf is concerned. There's no reason that would bring up any red flags.

As far as how to get amanda out, you're idea sounds good to me. Anything else and you're running the risk of her telling your gf. And you have deniability if she says no and tells your girl, though I doubt it.

Just plan out logistics well. If you bring her out, be sure you have a place that you can for sure bring her to for sex later, because you don't want to be planning shit out after she's ready. Nothing kills the mood faster.

lol yeah, it does seem like it would be easy.

Agreed.
It did seem that way.
Yes and yes.

Lol Cheating with your GF's best friend - DISASTER WRITTEN ALL OVER IT !

IF YOU DONT WANT YOUR GF LEAVE HER AND GO WITH THIS OTHER CHICK !

OR BE SINGLE !

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Ok so best outcome would be?

Me and this girl mutually stay who we are with but have a quickie.


Worst outcome:

I lose my girl because her friend tells her I made a move on her or if I sleep with her her friend feels guilty and tells her

Sounds about right.

I seriously dont understand why a guy would risk a 7 year relationship by fucking his GF's best friend.

Ever herd the phrase dont shit where you eat?

This applies here if you want to cheat dnt get caught go fuck a random chick or something !

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Why don't you get everyone together and have an orgy?

That way nobody gets hurt and everyone has fun

So i friended her on facebook. She sent my girl who doesnt use facebook a screenshot of me requesting her. She says "i wont accept if you dont want me to" and "i dont want to make him mad at me"

facebooking her was a nice test. Now you don't have to find out the hard way that she WOULD MOST DEFINITELY spill the beans to the gf if you were to make a move.

misread her signs? she values the friendship too much? not attracted to me, or attracted to me but would not do anything to act on it?

Dude you have no chance ! she told her friend about you merely adding her on facebook ! imaging you make a move shes going to shoot you down quicker than you can say 'Oh fuck' !!!

DONT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT !

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She was getting away with what she could get away with is my guess.

The other thing to keep in mind is this: Facebook friends are usually PUBLIC DOMAIN. So the girl alerted her friend about it. As it would be odd perhaps in her mind if her friend (your long standing gf) were to see you added as a friend on her page.

So the game might not be over with this one looool. Treading on thin ice with the whole scenario though, as you know.

misread her signs? she values the friendship too much? not attracted to me, or attracted to me but would not do anything to act on it?[/quote]
She was getting away with what she could get away with is my guess.

The other thing to keep in mind is this: Facebook friends are usually PUBLIC DOMAIN. So the girl alerted her friend about it. As it would be odd perhaps in her mind if her friend (your long standing gf) were to see you added as a friend on her page.

So the game might not be over with this one looool. Treading on thin ice with the whole scenario though, as you know.[/quote]

lol well my girlfriend doesn't have one, but her family members, friends, ect. do so she would have seen that I added her friend.

So if this girl doesn't add me, do you think I still message her and say the christmas shopping thing? Or do you think I wait until she does something now