There is a girl working as a clerk in a place which I frequent. She used to lock eyes with me from distance, and also did hair toss when I was nearby. Last week I decided to make move. When I approached I said 'Hi' with a plan to start conversation. She looked on the ground and mumbled something which sounded like 'Good afternoon'. She made minimal eye contact I found it weird that she didn't look interested anymore. I expected more enthusiastic interaction from her side but she acted like I'm just a ordinary customer. At this point I became confused about what to do next because of her mixed signals. Just before I was going to leave I stared at her (unconciously) and was thinking should I say something or not. I already started walking while still looking at her and at that moment she turned her eyes on me and stared. At this point I understood that she is interested, because it's unlikely she would look in someones eyes, which they don't like. I just walked away (yeah mistake) because I already had started walking, probably looked like an AFC.
I realize I should have returned to her when she locked eyes with me, but I just couldn't think for a reason to do it. Why did she act disinterested in the beginning? What should I do next time I see her?

Heres a general body language/ eye contact rule.

When you lock eye contact with a girl she can do one of four things with her eyes and they each mean something different.

1) She lifts her eyes and looks up in the air. This means she isn't attracted and sees you as being unworthy of her.

2) She looks left or right. It means she's indifferent. She could care either way. Approach her she may be open to it; don't approach and she won't lose any sleep.

3) She looks down. This is a subconscious sign of "submission" and she is potentially submitting herself to the possibility of you being capable of leading her.

4) She locks eyes back and hold eye contact with you without breaking. Simple means, she wants to have sex with you. Now. You just have to be as confident and interesting as your eye contact and she's yours.

Now:

Guys have to keep in mind that even though a woman may want you to approach her; that is not a sign that she is going to know what to do when you finally do approach. Many women are afraid of potential awkwardness and will reject or behave antisocially with guys that they like just because they are afraid they are going to run out of things to say and look like idiots themselves.

Too many guys give women too much credit. They are more often than not just as confused as us when it comes to what to say and what to do when we approach. Hell, they are usually more confused because they look at us and say " You're the one that approached ME; why do you expect me to know what to say? I thought you knew what you were doing". And thats what being a leader is all about. Leading the conversation up until the point that she feels comfortable enough to join along side of you and help you carry it.

And keep in mind that some women are better at it than others. Many beautiful girls lack socially skills because they don't need social skill. Everyone likes them because they are beautiful. They get invited to parties because they are beautiful. What on earth did they need social skills for? To attain what? They already get everything from their looks.

I teach men to take full responsibility but keep in mind that some girls just don't know what to say. And if we don't know what to say; or if we don't know how to lead them out of that awkwardness then WE just have to become more efficient at socializing.

Keep getting out there bro. You'll get the hang of it all with enough repetition.

Much love.

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Women are mirrors. Think back to the energy you were giving off when you said "hi" to her. Her looking down awkwardly tells me that she may have been mirroring a bit of nervousness on your part but I could be wrong.

Talk to a girl like you already know her and her comfort levels will skyrocket in most instances.

You can’t expect every girl that makes eye contact with you to be excited when you approach them, that’s just not how pick up works. You could be the best looking guy she’s ever seen, and it still won’t change how she reacts to approach that much. Especially when dealing with ridiculously hot women, they are going to test the shit out of you to see if they can figure out if you’re really high status or not. Getting flustered or disappointed when she doesn’t get overjoyed by your approach is a VERY low status behavior. If she sees you reacting like this, she will know right away that your just another guy trying to act like something your not.

The key to this is: BE NON REACTIVE

If you approach her and she doesn’t even smile, who gives a shit. You’re interested in what she has to offer, and you’re curious about more than just her looks. She could make fun of you the entire interaction, but as long as you keep that unshakable confidence, you will pass all her tests and eventually she will realize you are high status and try to jump your bones.

How she reacts to your comments and jokes SHOULD NOT FVCKING MATTER. You’re telling them to amuse yourself anyways, so who gives a shit what she thinks...

This is high status behavior, and this is what women crave.

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