Hey dudes awesome site, stunned by the amount of info on it.

I'm a 20 year old new to PUA and after reading so many different views and options about it i got hit by the "paradox of choice" (too many options to choose paralyzes your decision instead of making it easier). I completed the newbie challenge today, and it felt good, but my conversation falls after a few minutes.

Anyways i was thinking, for my first time sarging this weekend what would be the best method to help me guide through it? I'm confused between RSD, Mystery Method, Juggler Method, 60 years, etc,etc so much different stuff, and i want to go through them slowly. Can anyone that knows better kind of point me towards a method for newbies who want to improve?

Thanks a lot, best forum ever!

There is indeed a tone of info out there, i recommend in this order:
- Richard Gambler's book (basics on natural-ish kind of game)
- Daygame.com
- Watch some Simple pick up on youtube to see how fun and easy it can be
- RSD Tim's Flawless Natural

When you start to get laid a little bit:
- 60 years of challenge (make your game more sexual and efficient)
- Mark Manson - Models (no BS, all the stuff that works and there is more to life than pick up)


I went from being super shy to pretty good. I give myself credit obviously but these books gave me some mindsets that changed my life.

Good luck.

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Best advice ever that I can give a beginner. Take it easy. Don't get caught up in the whole "I have to do exactly what this guru says." Some methods are better for different guys. It depends on you. Some guys can game really well with low energy and a super serious face, some guys are very high energy. Some guys love direct, some indirect.

I suggest for your first time to just give yourself a goal and accomplish it. Tell yourself that you have to approach at least ten girls and that you have to ask for every single girls number, whether you think she's interested or not. Use two or three openers. And see what works best for you.

I suggest simple openers like
"I saw you and thought you looked adorable, I had to come say hi, my name is"
"Hey, I love your style. I wanted to say hi"

Anything along those lines.

Practice makes perfect.

99% of gamers just small talk and then pretend it's game.

Simply just finding girls that are already into you and not saying anything stupid

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