I've not been out sarging too much, but I've noticed I have some issues on my nightgame.

First of all, I've experienced a very strange (there is a very good explenation actually for it) and awesome phenomenon, when I am with a specific friend group (guys and girls included) and I am having too much fun in clubs or parties, girls from around actually hit on me (usually only to me from the hole group). Our nights out usually include a lot of alcohol, which is supposed not to be advised, right?

The problems here are:


a) I usually do not go out with this group and I have also other friend group (which is almost only guys) with whom I go out more often.

The question here is how can I get myself in the same crazy-dance-fun state when I am with not so party animals friends? Can I really achieve that if the others aren't following?


b) Having too much fun or drinking too much alcohol have almost the same effect on me, I can go crazy But if I do not achieve any of these and my friends are not in a similar crazy state, I really can't dance. I just move like an inflexible piece of wood. Dancing is supposed to be done no regarding how much alcohol you are having and nightclub dancing isn't really sth you can learn in a dance class I think.

Does anyone know if there are any tips or videos that can help with that? Getting some moves or unstuck my body? (I should not be getting drunk every time I want to go out and sometimes it doesn't work with dancing)


c) I live in a city where you can easily find drunk/tipsy girls early at Friday or Saturday night. How do you approach girls when they are like that? I've found out that the usual lines or routines do not work here (I make an opener and most of the times they just stand there and look at me like I tried to explain them quantum physics or they just turn around), I'm guessing because the girls do not have the mental capacity to understand them when they are like that. So I think there is a need for a more brutal approach. But I think that approach must, also, be rapidly interesting and intriguing in order to get the tipsy/half drunk girl's attention very fast as they can get distracted very easily.

Any hints on that?


Thank you guys

a) Girls are probably hitting on you because you have girls already in the group = pre-selection

b) Youtube it, tons of videos on basic dance routines for the club

c) Go heavy with physical game

a) That's what I thought too and I'm probably also providing social proof and seem like an interesting and energetic guy

b) I didn't rly find anything usefull

c) Could you give me an example of an opening and what follows after that to understand it better? (being more physical is also related with the dancing problem I think)

a- They are opening you? Good. Whatever it is, you are doing it well.

b- Don't worry too much about the drinking. I mean, do not be that drunk idiot who cannot talk or move anymore, but other than that, don't be afraid to knock back a drink or two and have some fun. Regarding the dancing...
1. Move your hips to the rythm of the music. Get into a trance. Feel the music. Be one with it.
2. Science, bitch!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9xThNyPWdc
Guy knows a thing or two about club game. Other than that... Chat up girls out of the dancefloor area. If on the dancefloor, go physical. Physical meaning
1. Establish eye contact
2. move closer
3. grab her hand
4. Dance.
5. Make out.
6. Isolate.

if eye contact should not be possible, it is OK to tap her shoulder once to signal your existance. Smile to prove you are not a threatening or weird guy. Offer her your hand. Go on like above.

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Thanx for the response dude, rly helpful!!

a. I'm pretty good not giving a shit and having fun, that's all, I'm not even the common good looking guy

I would love a response on my first and most basic question, if anyone has any ideas
(Don't say drugs plz )

Learn how to dance and amp up your state by talking to literally everybody on the way to the club

Oh yeah, sorry, I forgot. I also have the same quite often. Unless it literally is just you and one more friend just lose them once inside man, they will be alright! Nothing like a closed "incestuous" group to make you unapproachable and kill your game lol. I mean, make sure to spend some time with them and to get back to them from time to time in order not to be a shitty friend, but don't spend your entire night with them! Otherwise you may as well meet during the daytime in your living room, it would be healthier!

Don't jump straight into the dancefloor all alone and cold, no wonder you feel displaced. I mean, nothing wrong with being on the dancefloor alone, but... Get a bro attitude, talk to everybody inside, guys and girls alike! This should get you in the zone, you know? Just remind yourself how awesome people can be by interacting with them, love the fact that you are there and feel welcome and the rest will follow! It's easy to talk to girls once it's "your house"!

Also, a comment on my last post... The order of making out and isolating might be interchangable, depending on the attitude of the girl and your goals with her... You might be risking her getting buyers remorse the next day if you don't talk to her enough this evening. Not that it should matter to you if your goal is a same night lay, but yeah...

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Can you give me a time frame on average for each step, because I think I fucked it up

test going out alone... there are a bunch of youtube videos on basic dancing, but my goal with dancing is to escalate sexually while we are having fun, i got some dancing videos on what i do in the dancefloor..

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The english is a bit of a challenge to understand, but as awful as it sounds you have to me a lot more aggressive women out on the night seen. I'm reaching and grabbing wrist and then pulling them women so they turn around and face me. Then I'll usually smile, widen my eyes, and give them the " You're fucking hot" look. I ask them there names, where there from - all while playing the " I can't keep my hands off you " roll. Touching them and puling back; telling them how much of a bad guy I am for not being able to control myself in their presence. After a bit more small talk, I'll just go for the kiss; and once thats locked in thats all she wrote. " go get your stuff, and tell your friends you're heading home. I'll wait for you outside "

That was my usually thing.. I'm in great relationship now though; with a girl I met off okcupid ironically enough

But yeah, keep the drinking to a minimum. I always preferred not drinking at all. I get to sloppy and it becomes difficult to form a sentence.

Much love.

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