This is the girl that I promised id be there for her during her emotional breakdowns (she self harms). This is the girl that I went the extra mile for all the time. And Tuesday night, boom. Calls me and tell me shes been thinking and is no longer happy. I took it very well, was charismatic and told her "Well, you know, theres no sense of being together if we're both unhappy" -Sarcastic raised eyebrow voice-

I wished her well and told her that everything I ever gave her (my sweater/blah blah) is for her to keep. She told me she already misses me like crazy minutes after she dumped me. Also, the INSTANT we got off the phone during the break up convo she tweeted "Yep, I really messed up this time". What an impulsive bitch.
We havnt spoken since and I am prepared to go NC for months no matter what she throws at me. To be honest tho she was hot, her pussy was beautiful and she tasted great. I feel so betrayed tho, how could I ever take her back if thats what she wanted. I could never take her back.

I keep reading that NC will get her interest and she will come back but I dont know how I feel about that. I put so much effort into her that taking her back in ANY WAY would make me feel like a AFC sucker. Do I just move on completely and let her regret this decision for the rest of her life? Do i ever eventually take her back in to only fuck her? Ill never date her romantically again so whats the point? why even give my dick to a girl who did this to me?

THANKS boys any insight is appreciated

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"A man is the sum of his actions."

I think NC is the most sucker thing that you can do.

Clearly you don't understand the feminine. Women are a tidal wave of emotion, they mean what they say one moment and then say and do something else. They are not bound to their word like we are as men and because this is true we shouldn't treat them as if they are.

If she would of called me saying that I would smiled and said " We can take a break, but we're going to be together. I love ya. Call me in a few days"

And bam, she would of instantly snapped back in line, and then I would of STILL waited a couple of days before speaking to her again.

You accepted her decision and allowed her to assume leadership by being able to make such a decision. I end the relationship, because I'm the reason it started in the first place.

But anyway, its too late for that. If you like her man, let her come back crawling; and then take her back. She won't make the same mistake again. Just make sure you don't rush into accepting her back; let her feel it and then pentrate her with your love once again. I say give it 3 days.. Your call.

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Ok. First of all. My opinion is 75% of the mass is stupid and likes to be the sheep. Adding to this, women are emotional creatures witch makes them more incline to be stupid. I'm not even being mean, I love when they act emotive. When you listen to a women u dont listen to what she says... Shes not a guy... Shes not your friend... She fucking a vagina with a bigger right brain... Even if all fucking day long you hear her talk about her right brain stuff nobody cares... Even she might not.

I dont like what you answered her. If you were unhappy u would not post this, alright. Dont you fucking lie to her. Not for her not for me for you.

Second, only make promise you are sure too keep. Girls will accept a lot but dont make useless promises. Now what happen is she did emotionally brokedown and you failed on your promise! If i was her i would think fuck that stupid

So now that our elbows are in the dirt.
1- what she want does not matter. What you does. If you feel betrayed prolly you should look at yourself because you seem to do that to others very easily.
2- your dick is not a princess. You are not a princess. Put it in a nicely looking vagina and it will feel good I promise.
3- yeah u can be romantic with her again. That does not make you a sucker, it makes you a lover. You not sure how u feel about her? Go next to her and feel ur presence... Do u feel good? Do u feel like a man ? If yes the. Yes u still do love her and dont lie about it.
4- look for what YOU did to make this happen. You are the oak tree and she is the squirrel.
5- the game is over. She had sex, she had the emotional rollercoster. The pickup part is done and this is the wrong forum. There is no more games too play wherr u at. Just be yourself and if she likes it reward her in a way that pleases you
6- listen to her like a ocean, she calls you, she tweets you, she is emotional; there is something to work with

make her chase you make her put some investment in. if you chase her very simply it makes you the weak one and almost begging her to take you back

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To be honest, I actually wasnt happy. She has a very young pussy and it couldnt really take my dick. I hadnt really seen her in 2 weeks and she's been acting sketchy as fuck for that time. Perhaps when she texts me next (if she does ever again), I'm gonna say "I'm completely unfazed by your decision and you're still my little brat". Or something like that. I don't want a girl who dumps me because she had a hard day tho. Her needing a break is a red flag honestly.

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Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."

I promised I would be there for her and she turned her back on me. What am I a fuckin idiot? I have too many options to be treated that way. Yeah she was cute and yeah ill miss her voice and her ass but a true alpha has too many options to care. Do you think James Bond would take back a girl who said "this isnt working out"?? She hasnt seen me in 2 weeks and has been super sketch during that time. I also know she has insane mood swings.

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"A man is the sum of his actions."

She's a fucking nutjob, man.

No offense.

She's a self-harmer and has some emotional and mental issues, clearly. I don't know if either of you know what you want, here.

Eddie is kind of right: If you wanted to stay in your self-destructive relationship, why would you just agree with her and give up on what was clearly a spontaneous, emotional decision on her part?

You've posted several times on here about this woman and this isn't the first set of problems you've had with her.

You haven't been with her long enough to be putting up with this shit, first of all... And despite the fact you think she's got a wonderful snatch, she withholds sex and doesn't initiate sex with you (girlfriend-rejects-never-initiates-sex-vt184207.html)

To each his own, though. I don't know why you'd want to be with her, but if you do, just stop giving her any attention at all... Call it a freeze out if you'd like. It'll work - may not even take that long. She's exactly the type of girl a freeze out works best on (a lunatic).

She'll bounce her emotions from ultra negative to missing the fuck out of you soon enough, and at that point you take her back and wait to do it all over again in a couple months when she goes bat shit crazy again.

You're a sucker for punishment.

being honest i would suggest something simple find another girl a better girl or better yet several better girls,

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Bingo. Find other girls. Have sex with them. If and when she comes back, turn it into a friends with benefits kinda thing. Tell her that you when you started being single you got busy with alot of things and don't have the time for anything serious. Let her know that you can only afford a bit of time here and there.

And that's only if the snatch is worth the drama. If you find other girls you may start to realize that there are sexier girls out there with less drama that are better in bed. And when you find that, this girl is really gonna want you back.

I love you guys. All of you. Theres something so so painful about losing a girl and knowing you could have done something about it. Eddie your post kinda haunted me, because deep down I know you're right. The crazy bitch wanted me to remind her how much I care and that Im not ready to lose her. But why make me jump through her hoops while she tries to end things. Im too old for that emotional bullshit and too young to be unhappy in a relationship.

In the end, yes she's a crazy bitch. from one day writing me hearts and kisses and asking for them in return to coldly dumping me on the phone. I was non-chalent. Told her I want to be with her and we could try again, but I was firm in that I wasnt happy and neither was she. In the past she freaked out when I freezed her out for a couple days....

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Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."

Charles, we may not have gotten along right away but you always post insightful things and I respect that. I cant trust a girl this indecisive and impulsive with my heart. I think she was thinking about dumping me for a while cus shes been sketchy as fuck for at least a month. Every time she recently texted me in my head I was thinking "what does this bitch want". Also I have been sexting girls for weeks. It wasnt right and I was sexually and emotionally drained most of the time.

Was her dumping me the biggest and most final test she threw my way? maybe. Am I ready to deal with a girl who does that and barely puts out? NO. FUCK NO.

Much love, my friend
Paul

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Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."

A true alpha male does not call himself a alpha male, he just do whatever the fuck he wants. James Bond doesn't say : "i can't do this, I'm James Bond!" He just know that he will only reward girls that deserve it. Mr. Bond and womens respect that.

The way you put it it seems to be her ultimate test, some girls loves drama, its part of the rollercoster that makes them feel alive. You probably should not take that bullshit. You have better options? Girls that are willing to show you care kindness and love? Well the road to take seems obvious, its the one that light shines trough the trees.

Move on to other girls. Like breedlove said once you do that this girl will probably really chase hard. But she really doesn't seem worth it, even for a FWB situation.

Get over yourself dude. You said she self harms which means that psychologically she's in a bad place. Calling her a bitch because she ended the relationship makes you sound like a fucking, whiney asshole. You obviously weren't making her happy so the problem lies with you as well. Stop projecting all your shit onto her. Sleeping with a million other girls won't help. She dented your big ego and you need to get over that first otherwise you'll just make other girls as miserable as you fucking are.

To the other dudes on here calling her nasty names, show some fucking respect man. If you were ill would you like people saying you were a fucking nut job? Christ the immaturity on here is astounding.

Phuck off, I fell all over myself to please this girl. Told her stuff like "I want all of you, including your problems. We're in this together." Then she dumps me. I'm gonna stand there and try to manipulate her back into not wanting to dump me? I'm gonna give my heart to this woman while at any time she could stomp on it?

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Paul

"A man is the sum of his actions."