| Situation:
Am a college student and am taking a part time job in an office setting for the holidays, just came back from the first day of work after trying out game on the opposite gender part timers and need advice. It's a 2 weeks stint and I intend to treat it like game practice, as a sport!
Bear with me for I am still new to the game and using older school tactics like Mystery taught, corrections welcome.
Possible DHVs I come equipped with:
- Sharply dressed than most or all of the male part timers (preppy basic look, solid safe colours).
- Mane of long hair peacock that invites questions (are you in the arts?!). When I said I have to take Friday off a girl asked me if I have a gig on.
- Did hint at pursuing a fitness-conscious lifestyle (yeah, I do workout regularly).
- Vibrant clubbing lifestyle
- (Not unravelled) Relatively well-off and only seeking to work for experience and to kill boredom, no doubt under wraps for now for obvious reasons.
Possible DLVs:
- Energy level too high for a new guy, I got too know way too many people on my first day. If inconsistent, it may come back to haunt me on feebler days.
- Humor type ill-calibrated. Digs I usually throw at my friends end up in awkward silences amongst the male species here like I tried to AMOG someone and failed badly.
Real Questions:
1) From the get-go I got acquainted with the girl who has been friendliest with the males, by happenstance and not design. I see many males try to hit on her, but instead she's giving so many IOIs to my closests male friend on day 1, and he's the only one not caring like a true Alpha. In response to such keen competition I went too hard on my neg game (AFC mistake I know!) as a reflex action against a "high value" female, instead of going for "push-pull".
She's still friendly but less warm than when we first met, how do I rectify this?
P.S. Note that I did this because I at first judged her as a 'P' from Adam Lyon's "P/E/N" model and I thought a rougher approach would be best. But despite dropping the F bomb rather liberally and wearing her heart on her sleeve, I'm starting to think she has an "E" side to her.
2) The previous question was linked to what I'm asking now. I quickly identified her as the 'key' to the girl's clique, which was rather segregated from the guys for now, as she eats with us but hangs with the girls also, if I can get chummy more than the rest, it's preselection right there.
So I tried another Mystery trick and when I caught her interacting with her female friends near my workstation, I went: "hey, why didn't you intro your friends to me, so rude!" (Actual line should be: 'you should introduce your friends to me, that's the polite thing to do'; but it came out wrong). I got the name of the girl she was directly interacting with though.
So the question is, how badly did I mess up here
3) So I got acquainted with the girls clique and I asked if they were schoolmates, a variant of the best friends test. To my surprise they were. To which I responded: "I can tell! You guys were chatting and laughing all day, I knew something was up." I hoped to get across some impression that I'm socially calibrated to sense some girl coding amongst them.
To which the smallest and chirpiest of the girls challenged (probably a shit test now): "well we may be friendly strangers!"
Me, getting her to qualify herself: "oh? Are you always this friendly with strangers?"
Her: "haha, yes"
Me: "nice! Your name is?"
*exchange introductions*
But it was time to go so there is no room for further introductions.
Now I'm going to ask, did I escape this shit test well?
4) Note that during these interactions with the girls I only introduced myself to the girl who hung out with the guys, the girl who had directly interacted with the former and the girl who qualified herself to me. The rest watched my interactions but I shut them out for now.
I know when gaming a set of multiple females you try not to exclude their other female friends but at the same time I wish to show them that I'm the prize and will only "reward" those who interact well with me or my associates/circles. How does one strike a balance between the two?
With the above scenario and questions are there any advices or answers PUAs here can give me? Much appreciated!
**note that the above is respect to fellow part timers in the same demographic and age group as I, around 20 years young**
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