So this has been on my mind for a while and I finally decided to post it and see what you guys think about it.

There's one thing that's always stopped my game from improving: building comfort/rapport/whatever you want to call it.

I've never actually bothered to learn how to build comfort cause I've honestly just been scared of a girl falling for me when I only wanted to fuck her.

I got into game in the first place, just like most guys, cause I was hurt and I decided that I wanted to master interacting with girls, so the last thing I would want is to make a girl feel like I felt before learning game.

I don't want to get a girl thinking that I may actually want something more than just a hook up, but recently I've realized that this has actually been hindering my game big time cause I guess I only seem to get the girls that don't really require that much comfort, or only seem to get so far with certain girls.

Obviously, I don't think that every guy here is fine with fucking with girls' heads, so I know I'm missing something.

So I just wanted to know what you guys' thoughts are. Have any of you guys gone through this before? Or is there a certain mindset I'm missing?

The girl can tell by how smooth you are that you are not a "relationship" kind of guy, you don't even have to spell it out for her. They know. They're ok with some fun with a cool guy, it's nothing to get too concerned with. Just have to maintain your frame and be consistent i.e. don't give her verbal signals or body language that you are anything other than what you are.

A woman knows that if you end up having sex with her on the first "date" that you can probably also do this with other girls; she isn't generally going to try to fool herself into thinking that all of a sudden the two of you are going to get hitched.