Well guys... I've been around a bit and i know a thing or 2 but ive got this situation i wonder if anyone can help with.

So there is a girl (duh) she works at the cafe i go to for my lunch which is always mobbed. Shes gave some IoI's and i make the odd joke and we have a laugh. Heres where it gets tricky shes always rushed off her feet so i can barely grab a minute with her. secondly - I'm pretty sure its her parents that own and work in the cafe aswell so its even harder to game her quickly around her mum and dad?

Shes an Hb7.5 but its the challenge thats attracting me more than anything.

How would you guys play this one?

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Excuse me, ma'am, sir, I would like to bone your daughter. Would you kindly send her to my table when her next break comes up. Thank you

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HAHAHA that would be the ideal scenario ! lol I know how to game a family set ive done it a few times. The main problem is the speed i would have to do this at because its constantly mobbed ! lol Versalis ! you always have the best advice hahaha

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I'm not a fan of notes... but this may be one of those times where they are OK as long as it's cheeky as fuck, playful and won't be considered really beta.

And when you hand it to her, say "Listen I know you're swamped here... I won't take too much of your time - but I wanted to get your thoughts on this..."

I dunno - best I got for something like this...

You need to just ask her if you can hang out with her outside the cafe. Don't try to play games, just be forward with your intention (because your intention right now is pure and positive for both of you) as long as you're not obsessed with her.

Hey ____ , you wanna grab some coffee with me later this week? (.....yes, like a date, where your parents won't be around ) don't have to say the last part if you guys arent that comfortable

She may say yes, or she might give you an excuse. You should be able to engage whether she is even remotely interested. If it's the latter then move on. But this is the only way you can find out and better sooner than later

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See i would go for this approach but its literally a tiny cafe her parents will hear me saying this so its a bit of a forward thing to do infront of someones parents... not like i give a fuck. I wouldnt say i was close to her we only know each others first name and thats it ! lol

I was thinking a note aswell but it has to be proper cheeky and perfect to get her hooked in ! lol

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I think gaming her in front of her mom and dad is one of the best things you can do. It shows that you are not only bold and courageous, but you have good intentions because you don't mind them being around to witness. A guy with ill intent would shy away from being seen by a girls parents.


When I hit on cashiers I usually run with the same line unless their is something more relevant to the moment of the conversations...

" So.. you gon write your phone number down on the receipt "

Its 50-50.. If they say anything other than "no".. Anything other you just say " Do you have a pen back here" .. They say " yes " .. And you say " Alright, write it down and I'll call you"

But once again, its never about what you say as much as it is about HOW you say it. With proper confidence you can say almost anything and it will work.

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There has to be a time when her parents are either serving someone, at the register or at the kitchen where they can't hear you.

I'm not a fan of leaving notes behind personally, but you could try it. I would even write a note and show it to her while you're there (hey... lets go out, don't want your parents to hear me ...)

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