So, I'm the kind of guy who likes to learn about everything on a specific topic.
And than apply why I know, of course with pickup, that isn't the case, you learn from infield,
I've done maybe about 4 or so cold approaches, I'm very confident etc, I have a lot about myself that I like,
Now my problem is. Its difficult for me to just.. Get out there, I feel like I need to learn more before I go out
Its a bad habbit of mine and I'd love to just go out and do. Not just sit here and learn shit that won't help me until I actually get out. What are some tips or like.. Just motivation that will get me out?

-Tristan.

Sex with hot women is a great motivator.

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Study up before you go out and make a go of this; nothing wrong with that. But don't let the studying consume you; keep a balance between learning & action taking. But yeah eventually you have to put in all the hard work yourself, in the field.

You can try to learn stuff cold and develop more solid inner game before you go out in field. That helped me a lot when I first started. I changed my wardrobe, improved my health, and was drowning out all negative thoughts. There is a lot you can do to prep for in field success, but you do need to eventually apply it.

Sometimes it takes reading a book 10-12 times before you know the concepts cold. If I were to choose one book to know cold, it would be Double Your Dating by DeAngelo. It will help give you natural game, and is very practical.

Make a commitment to spending X many hours studying and Y many hours approaching. Remember that it is okay to make mistakes in field, and have a long term out look. What happens on any given night doesn't matter. Set yourself an approximate goal- try to kiss every girl you talk to that night is one that will take you a long way.

Practice makes the crook. Just like on the job training. It will get a point that you approached or fucked so many women that you know exactly what they are going to say or do.

Since you know exactly what is going to more or less happend next you are subconsciously portraying confidance since you are pretty much in familiar territory.

There is a lot less to learn than you've been lead to believe. Meeting women is actually pretty simple. Most PUA material is mental masturbation that has little practical application.
What you need to get women is basically this:

1. Look good
2. Be confident
3. Have adequate social skills
4. Always think sexually during the entire interaction
5. Stay out of your head and learn to vibe with a girl's energy throughout the interaction

There is your daygame checklist. If you've got these down, learning more isn't going to be very helpful.
As for step by step guide

1. Make sure she seems open to being approached. If she looks like she just came from a funeral, find a different girl
2. Get your proximity close to her. Does she seem to notice you at all? If so, go talk to her. [If not, again find another girl, so you're not wasting your time on stuff that rarely works]
3. Your "opener" can basically be anything. Make an observation about her, about something in the environment. If she thinks you're cute, it barely matters.
4. Tell her you think she's cute within a minute or two. If you open this way, I've found the blow-off rate is higher. She has to be more physically attracted for it to work. Giving her a minute to decide you seem cool raises your success. But don't never tell her. Do it early, just not in the first minute.
5. Talk about whatever
6. Ask her out on a date tonight(or whenever you're next free). If she says she's busy, ask when she's usually free. Set up the night time date. If she doesn't offer any time, she's not interested, and you need to move on.

You can go ahead and take a phone number if you think she's borderline. I usually do this only when I think she's sort of into me, but not quite enough to go out today. I put all of those girls in my phone with a leading "z" in front of their name, so I know it's a low prospect. She'll get a couple of texts for a few weeks and then I'll delete her.

Never try to get phone numbers. Phone numbers are almost worthless. You want dates, not numbers. Girls give their phone numbers out like candy. Phone numbers are what you take as a last resort, and only if she's at least fairly into you. Do not be Vince Kelvin, running around talking to girls for 60 seconds and then asking for phone numbers. That's just going to be a whole lot of wasted time and frustration.

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This simple quote has helped me more than you would believe.

“I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”


― Og Mandino

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tips for afc daygame openers : the ultimate excuses: a function, party, sports, same topic.
ask for lighter for your cig, ask where's the bus, have you seen so and so, describe person.
and detect IOIs within that opening line or before whilst observing from the sidelines.
IOI is shown, proceed and escalate only if IOIs is shown. take care of the physical stuff too. fitness, clean clothing, sense of style is a plus!

you can open, using the most innocent of lines, unsuspecting lines. main thing is looking for IOIs.