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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 7:11 am 
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- hi awesome puas I need your guys help

So I got this girl number. We chit chat about a solid 10mins.
I open with pretend to ask direction than I told her I made it up I thought u look cute. She said she a freshman with junior status I made fun of her being overachiever etc. We chat about her opening a club about ONE campaign, and anti-poverty advocacy group. I got to know her a little bit. But in the end she said she have a boyfriend. ... so i switched gear. I said look I don't like beating around bushes. Do you have any hot single friends that u could introduce me to? She burst out laughing (I maintain strong eye contact with a smirk on face when I said it.) Than she replies actually I do my roommate she is alot like me. And I think she will like you alot. We exchanged numbers. I give her a hug b4 exit.

Later I texted her about the club she is forming. She gave me a brief description. And said tomo there's a meeting if u r interested. I said I'm down.

My questions are what is my goal for tomo when I see her friend?
I'm sure she told me to her friend how should I react when I see her? Thank you so much for the help
What frame should I establish in front of her friends? What is my move?


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 7:16 am 
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Take the same confidence that you used with this girl. Keep the same attitude. They all know why you're there, so you are in an ideal situation.

Next time a girl says to you she has a boyfriend, don't let that stop you from continuing running your game with her.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 8:04 am 
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Take the same confidence that you used with this girl. Keep the same attitude. They all know why you're there, so you are in an ideal situation.

Next time a girl says to you she has a boyfriend, don't let that stop you from continuing running your game with her.
OP: Bro! you're on the hunt, good for u man. (regarding your other posts in the forum). Yeah, do everything Jack has said.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 9:20 am 
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Agree. Just be confidence and funny like you did with the first girl (let's call her A). Also, I would add to ignore the new girl (B) a little bit for the firsts minuts. I mean, your attention must be focused on the person who earned it before (A) rather than B (she hasn't earned yet). Help B earning it. Get info by asking things to the both of them and use some negs (the neg's amount and intensity will depend on how hot and how confidence the girl is) A few weeks ago I met a girl in a house party. She was starting her carreer as a model. She was really pretty; taller than me... First thing she said to me: "Hey, that's the best shirt you had?". So I started to neg her and make funny of her in front of our friends. I knew I have to do it with intensity because she was sooo self esteemed.

Anyway; that was just an example. Chat with them for like 15 minutes top and then leave and hang around the club. Better if you go with some friends and between them you have a wing guy or wing girl. Do not ask for her number or show she likes you in front of people. NEVER. Once you and your friends have leaved the set (A & B), hang around the club and if you have the chance to isolate her later in that night, talk with her a little bit and do this: make her earn your respect and your attention; she has to know that she has proved si is good enough to talk with you; that she has something special or unique, worth enough to talk some more. Then use something to get her number. Maybe just open your phone and make her write her number (make a missed call so you make sure is not a fake number). That could work. But I am going to tell you a technique that has worked for me 6/6.

You: "Hey I need your help (maybe you can connect that to the conversation, f.ex. if she works with something related to technology)" or "Really? Then sure you you can help me.

Her: "Sure, what happens?"

You: "Something is wrong with my phone".

Her: "Really? What is wrong?".

You: "Your number is not in it..." (big smile) :D

I has worked for me everytime I tried it. Is just an example.

Well, I hope it is helpful. Tell us how it went!


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 12:20 pm 
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You: "Hey I need your help (maybe you can connect that to the conversation, f.ex. if she works with something related to technology)" or "Really? Then sure you you can help me.

Her: "Sure, what happens?"

You: "Something is wrong with my phone".

Her: "Really? What is wrong?".

You: "Your number is not in it..." (big smile) :D

Wow, this worked? My asshole literally clenched up when I read this.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 29, 2014 4:33 am 
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Update:

I went to the club meet to see what they up to. But i was like 20mins late. I came in the room their were 5 HBs in the meeting (i never interact more than with 1 girl). The HB who i got the number she is the president of the club lets call her (x)(She said she will introduce me to her roommate (Y) to me). She welcome me to the meeting. I made jokes about how difficult was to find the place it feels like a underground club meet or something... They laugh. I introduce myself to everyone. Than i ask questions about the club stuff. I realized (x) direct my attention to (y) but girl (y) she is a shy type of girl (im not into her). I focus on my attention to what the club stuff i ask meaningful questions (act like im interested in the club meeting) I realized that all the girls here have assign positions so i said i need to be in a high position with authorities over them. ( not as joke but for real)

I feel like whenever i speak their attention is all on me (i like that feeling) so i cut em off a few times during the interaction so i can speak (to show im the man in this club?) etc. I joke alot with em. but at the same time i contribute good ideas to the group. Than the other 2 HBs (lets call em (a) and (b)). They both laugh at my jokes alot. Play with their hair iois. Whenever i put out my opinion they genuinely agree with me and say that is good idea. The meeting is suppose to be like 30 to 40 mins but it went to 1hr 30mins. We wrap up the meeting.

On the way out i was walking with HBs (a) and (b) ask me what position i wanna be in. I told em someone who have authority over you guys. They tell me that they gonna go get tacos bc its free taco Tuesday on campus and is gonna be a long line. I tell them just cut the line we are in (this club name) than we ask em to sign in our club (as a joke they laugh). than they ask where am i going now. (i could of went with em but i feel like i need to exit on a high point). i told em i need to get home etc. than i ask for both their numbers. than i end with a group hug with the HB (a) n (b). The HB (x) n (y) walked ahead bc i stop the (a) n (b) to talk to em. They will text me for the future meetings etc

So my questions are How did i do? I dont want to be their gay friend i need to take atleast 1 to her room. What are someways to get HB (x)(president) even she has a bf? What is my next move on the HB (a) and (b)? I want to get em both if i can.

if you guys need any more details just ask me :)

Thank you so much for your guys help idk what to do without yall!


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 29, 2014 8:23 am 
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Damn! Sounds like a great night for you buddy. First of all, congrats on how you did it at the club.

Regarding your questions:

HB (x) (president): I would get info. Find out if she really has a BF. If she does, find out what kind of relation it is. Many, many options here.

1.- If it is a stable relationship and they are happy, forget it. There is tones of girls and it's not worthy to go around breaking relations.

2.- If it is a stable relationship, SHE is not happy (or is not a stable relation) and you wanna build a relationship with her (I mean, you don't just want to fuck with her), her BF has no better right than you.

But I would rather focus myself on HB (a) and (b) (unless you tell us (x) is a fucking HB10 or the girl of your dreams, LOL. Assuming they do not have boyfriends, if they are friends... I would forget about getting both of them. I'have done it once and only brings you headaches (I fucked with two random girls I met separately... it turned out that they were close friends). Decide wich of them you like more and then work with her. Since you have HV with the whole group of girls, you could arrange a first meeting with your boy friends. It would be a great idea, because 1) your friends can act like wings and let you isolate your Target 2) maybe one of your friends can fuck too, wich is great :). But decide first and then work, otherwise you might screw it up.

Good luck!


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