hey guys,

Still relatively new at this. I know some of the basic psychology of picking up women but I have a strange predicament. I knew this girl in highschool but only by name as she knew mine. Now she popped up on my facebook feed and i added her, we have lots of mutual friends but have never run into each other over the years, she knows my brother better than i because they share a close mutual friend but they dont know each other that well either.

I want to build a base with her and possibly hang out with her and get to know her, we have a few common interests and i am intrigued by her. How do i do it through facebook? is it all around a bad idea? do i just come out and say I want to hang out? I dont want to come off as creepy because Im not.

Any advice will do guys, thanks for reading and hope to get some feedback!!!

When you talk to her, act as if your old friends reconnecting. Talk to her the same way you would talk to an old friend that you were actually somewhat close to.

She'll likely start talking to you in a similar fashion or at least politely. That should be enough to work with so you can arrange a time to actually meet and "catch up."

Thanks man. I have commented on one of her posts and liked one photo, and she has interacted the same way on my posts, i dont think liking and commenting on her stuffwill get me far, she has guys liking and commenting on her stuff constantly as she is smoking hot. I really dont know much about her other than what my brother has told me or from what ive seen on facebook so wont she find that approach strange?

And do i connect with her on the public wall or do i just go straight to private messages? thanks for the advice!

PM dude.

Don't go public.

Ok I thought that was the best way. I did pm her regarding a post of hers. she replied but all it said was "Thanks (my name) " She had asked on fb if she could borrow a series of movies from anyone so I PMd her. I thought that was short so i did not reply again. Im just having a hard time deciding when to Pm heragain as I dont want to bombard her. I want to get the best response from her that i can.

What did you say to her? more than likely you didnt ask a question and thats why she replied with that. Which tbh is polite and nice of her but you should ask questions etc like chief said since you seen her from high school ask her hows things are going ? hows life etc just general fluff chat.

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Well, i said whats up hashtag, as she does hashtag on fb, just to poke a little fun at her. i continued with "i have those movies to get yu started but im at work all day " heres where i went wrong, i said " but my brother is in town and staying at my house, message him and maybe he can get them to you". I know that was ridiculously amateur of me lol In retrospect i shouldve said i could bring them to her tomorrow.but the damage is done so what now?

Its only been two days now, that topic is kind of dead eh? I shouldnt ask her if she would still like them? If i dont continue with the same topic how long should i wait until i PM her again? we have one major interest in common as i can see from her posts and thats comic books, huge turn on for me, she is smokin and mildly nerdy. But how do i approach that topic if thats the better choice, just randomly one day. hope to hear back son boys! God bless

You need to go out and meet more girls because this is creepy.

I go out on weekends and meet people, just nothing too interesting in these women. Its not creepy because i do know her. Maybe I didnt explain the whole situation. Its just difficult to establish anything if we never randomly see each other out.

Go to comic book stores and sarge girls there dude. You like nerdy comic girls, you won't be finding them at the clubs generally speaking.

For this girl yeah just banter with her about what you have been up to since highschool or whatever. Don't get dragged down in a lengthy FB exchange. You are putting her on a pedestal. Invite her to hang out.

Why dont you just ask her to hangout at the comic book store and grab a bite to eat or whatever use dudes get upto over the pond?

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