Wasn't quite sure where the best place to put this was so general will have to do. Here is the story.

Sunday night I drove to town to get a pizza. On my way home going down a non-lit road a small deer jumped out and I hit her. I stopped and waited for someone to stop and help me figure out what to do. There wasn't a whole lot of damage to my car but I didn't know what protocol is in Germany when you hit an animal. Eventually a car stopped with people that spoke english. Car full of 4 beautiful german girls! 3 blondes and a red head (oh how i love red heads) I got them to wait with me and chatted them up for about an hour till the guy came to clean up the deer and ask me questions. #close 3/4 one was married.

So, yesterday I was texting the one with the best IOIs and we went to town for a drink and end up back at my house by cab ride. Had an absolutely amazing night and I ended up letting her stay the whole night. I had to be to work really early this morning so I figured what the hell. I left a note that said "there is orange juice in the fridge if you want it make sure the door is locked when you leave." got a couple texts while at work and then I started my mild freak out and now my dilemma.

I came home for lunch, open the door and smelled food cooking. She was still here. I walked inside and my house is cleaned, I mean REALLY cleaned. Spotless clean. and she's standing in the kitchen making me lunch. A bite to eat some afternoon delight and I take her back home before going to work. haven't replied to a text today because idk how to react to this. I have a few things around the house that are extremely valuable and a large collection of extremely rare watches on display so My first thought was "did she notice these things and now wants to stick around for my money" then I decided thats not likely.

Im not complaining about a cleaned up house lunch and lunch sex just was not expecting it and don't particularly want a LTR right now. My question is really how do I keep her from thinking I think this is acceptable while at the same time trying not to loose a great contact. I have more questions but really don't know how to word them.

Please don't just tell me not to leave a girl at the house while I go to work. I already know its a pretty bad idea.

Did you get the impression she snooped around?

That's not cool, if she did... (but how would you know?)

I don't know - that's a tough one. She took a liberty but did you a favor... so you can't really be mad at her... I totally get why you'd be a little put off by it or even a little uncomfortable though.

If you like the girl, I wouldn't mention it in a negative way... Maybe don't mention it again at all... but the next time you're going to have to work early you may want to give her the boot that night.

yeah i can't be mad at all. the house was a wee bit on the messy side. haven't been doing anything but having parties and working cleaning a little after work beers and bed. snooping? i really don't know. my watch collection was moved which initially pissed me off to no end when i noticed it minutes before typing the post, but after I inventoried it all nothing was missing and none of them were touched. my old violin was still hanging where I keep it on the wall and its all good.

I'm just stuck between thinking that if i don't say anything about it it could escalate into a relationship and if i do say something it could ruin what I'm wanting

or maybe she is pushing to see what i am actually wanting without having to feel foolish asking???

No fucking clue. I don't think you're going to run in to someone that has experienced this, lol. I'm amazed that you have valuable shit that you just left out for some random chick to rummage through.

My guess is that she's trying to settle you down for a relationship. She likes you and maybe gets the feeling you have money and that makes you a perfect BF in her mind.

that very well may be. but i did just come out of a terrible marriage that ended horribly so now Is not time for a relationship. the valuable stuff is more for me than it is for random chicks to rummage through lol!

Dude, dont freak out, is all good.
Just dont do anything you dont want to do.

See her when you want, on your terms.

If she mentions a LTR tell her you like her and want to keep seeing her but you're not ready for a LTR just yet.

Congratulationz , you now have a fb.

Whatever she does is her decision.

Shes not putting a gun to your head, do as you please.

She'll understand, and shes free to choose.

Be a gentleman, be cool, always a good time.

Dont be a retard.

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Slightly odd situation for sure; she definitely took some liberties; but again you had had sex so she felt close to you; for the future I agree with the poster who said to boot her out at the end of the night next time. If she comes back for more a few days after that, it's all good.

Damn... crazy things have happened to me but none like this one. Basing on she didn't steal anything, I would say she is just being nice; maybe too much for some kind of persons. But if she is making you feel great and you really like this girl... just keep going. If you don't feel comfortable at all, next time just make sure she leaves the house with you in the morning before going to work. I think that telling here the truth would hurt her.

If you don't want anything more with her, you just got the perfect 'excuse', in case you need it.

Waiting for un update Good luck!

I wouldnt be complaining if a chick cleaned my house made me lunch and let me smack that ass!
Hire her as a cleaner who fucks ! lol that means you can kick her out whenever hahah!

Me personally i wouldnt be too fussed. She would have felt comfortable because you left her in your house with all your valuables so she felt trusted and obliged to keep you happy because you showed her welcomeness.

If you dont want her to kick about the next day dont let her simple.

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So yesterday I pretty much ended up just talking as little as possible told her how swamped I was at work (which was totally true) and she sent me a text this afternoon we got to talking about her day and stuff I ended up getting off work early stopped by her house because she said she has horses and I have dearly missed riding the last few months. It is all very clear to me now. She does NOT need a guy with money and really is just a super sweet lady who apparently abhors any kind of clutter lol she woke up got bored and didn't have the cash for a cab ride (maybe 70 euro) so she stayed till I got home to take her home after lunch. Thats all it was and I feel dumb for over reacting like a pregnant 13 year old!

Sounds like a good situation. Now go dirty up your house again so you can invite her over for sex, lmao.

Sounds like a good situation. Now go dirty up your house again so you can invite her over for sex, lmao.[/quote]

hell yeah.

Definitely sounds like an amazing situation. Have fun

Hahaha LOL with that last sentence. Well, I guess sometimes we overthink things. Enjoy this new situation (she sounds like a keeper; better if she is hot) and good luck dude!