Hi, I badly need advice and would appreciate if anyone took the time to read this an reply. Theres a girl Ive known about 3 years as shes the sister of my best friend. Id say weve seen each other about every month at parties and his house and stuff. Basically I now have a major crush on her and want to escalate with her.

There's lots of advice out there about getting out of the friendzone, the problem is we wouldnt consider each other close friends, but also theres never been contact or anything by me to suggest Id like a relationship, which makes things a bit more difficult. For the first few months after we met she had a huge crush on me but I wasnt remotely interested. She made her interest quite obvious through friends and the interest she showed in me whenever I was around. After I ignored her long enough she moved on and had 2 relationships, obviously during that time I got jealous and realised I liked her. Anyway mistakenly I tried to be nice to her but it just made things awkward, whenever we talked it was just boring stuff with awkward pauses. The last couple of times I met her though I went back to treating her like a bitch, teasing her for being stupid and stuff, and she seemed to love it.

She always looks at me like she wants me to fuck her brains out. The problem is I am an awkward introvert and was an even bigger one 3 years ago, Ive never told her I liked her, ignored her advances, never hugged her or made any contact except occasionally shoving her, by now Im sure she doesnt even consider us being an item. Id like to just game her but doing any routines on her, suddenly starting to touch her and make physical contact, or even flirting would seem so out of place after 3 years it would just be awkward. Another problem is I can never get her alone, we're not close friends so she's always just in the same group as me or with her brother. Have I messed this up beyond repair? Could even you PUA experts possibly find a way to salvage this disaster??

It's such a common remedy because it works so well: Meet more girls. She will literally smell the pussy on you and it will make it much much much easier for you to find the smooth way to either invite her out/make out with her/take her to her room/whatever it may be.

It's not fucked beyond repair, it seems like she wants to fuck. But in order for you to properly engage her in a way that will end up with her legs open and wanting you inside her, it is important that you are in the flow with other women as well. Otherwise, the importance you place on this girl - especially after knowing her for 3 years - may derail it all.

Also, when you make your moves, make them seem like no big deal and that you're not laying your heart on the line. Maintain the frame of teasing her/calling her out playfully/etc. all the way to the bedroom.

Start touching her, start talking to her, start smiling at her.

You need to do more than 'shoving' her playfully, obviously.

You want to convey your interest without actually SAYING you're interested (never say you're interested. That'll get you in the friendzone faster than anything).

The problem that I forgot to mention is Im seeing her much less now, it will be down to once every few months so I have to jump start things within just a few meetings. Can't slowly escalate.

All the more reason to meet more girls and get into the flow. If you want the easiest way to escalate with this particular girl, do that.

I will start saying that I can be wrong about that.

BUT

Do your best friend knows about it? He can help, give some tips. Make it happen faster.
You both can have a party at his/her place. Small thing. Here in Brazil we call "esquenta" when we get drunk at someones place before going to the actual party, that can work too.

When this "esquenta" or party happens pay attention to when she gets alone, I don't know, to get a beer or food, someplace that you know that will be that time constrain, and you talk to her normally, smiling, like that warm feeling between you both never died. Hopefully she will start drinking right in front of you and you say something like "remember when we bla bla bla?" (in a FUN way). That memory should put her mind at that time when she liked you. Perhaps finish it with a "I miss you" *hug* (strong kino. 80+ on The Sims, yo) and give her a long stare in the eyes with a smile so she knows there something more". Then 1) Perceive a KC moment or 2) Ask to come back to your friends 3) "We should talk more often" (or "see each other...?" - can't judge if this is to forward).

But I can be DEAD WRONG about it.

I'm curious though, let me know the result bro^^

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Good post BRstam I fully agree with you.

She always looks at me like she wants me to fuck her brains out? I don't think so bro. You treated her like shit when she was really into you. You've fucked up. Move on and leave her alone. Why do you want to go out with her anyway? So you can ask her if you are a better fuck than the other dudes she got with? Grow up. Find someone else and treat them with a bit more fucking respect than you did with her.

Most girls aren't into introverts, try to be honest with your posts. Practice with other women. Based off of what you said it shouldn't be too hard to kino her.

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Hey buddy. Well if you looked at the helpful advice but your just not getting the time to see her or meet her. Or your losing contact. You might wanna try just being a man a go direct as fuck. I'm talking rapid escalation. Get her insta wet in one day. Understand ? Maybe wanna try it

Work your little brain and figure out how you can get her. The possibility is there.

Next time you interact with her, flirt, if she seems into it go for the number and be honest about your feelings for her.

Idc if you known her for 10 years, shes a girl, your a man.

You want her? Go for it.

Whats doing nothing going to get you?

Go for it. Persist a couple of times, if she blows you off then cool, you were a fukin man.
Worst that can happen is you will stay friends.

Dont be a retard.

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