| Bar, daygame, bookstore, parking lot, grocery store...anywhere: it's always the same.
"Hey!" smile
wait for acknowledgement. if none, "hey, I'm over here." in a lower tone.
"you're kinda cute!"
allow response. tempo between lines is very measured (not hurried).
"how well do you cook?"
if well,
"good. give me your number."
if she gives any genuinely stupid excuse (like "i don't have one") it's a major turn-off, she's dead to me and I turn/walk away. yes i know she might be nervous, or I haven't hooked her, or she activated anti-slut defense, but in my personal situation, 1) I only want the best 2) i don't have time 3) i'm really not interested anyways, i got enough going on. However, I welcome resistance. I want to get to it ASAP so i can address and overcome it. Remember, if she's talking, she's interested.
if not well,
"surely, you must know that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach! what are you going to do to make it up to me?"
if she's fun/clever/likeable
"good. give me your number."
standard pua rebuttals past this point. for example, "i'm taken"
"Whoa, slow down girl. I'm not looking to be your boyfriend. I just want you to buy me a drink sometime."
A little later, instead of repeating givemeyournumber, say "You're so shy!... You haven't even asked me out yet!" (canned rebuttals)
never relinquish the frame. even if blow out, end with "you're really blowing your chances with me, you know."
The basic idea is to be direct, save time, show high status and that I don't care. All of the aforementioned are my genuine feelings. It occurred to me i should share this, maybe some fraction of you guys will like it. It's not meant to have a high conversion rate of "maybes." It targets one important ability that I value and am interested in. It relies heavily on first impressions based on one's height, fitness, face, dress, voice, and attitude — these characteristics obviously don't flatter everyone.
I use it indiscriminately (regardless of her IOI); the responses range from "wow creeper" to very enthusiastic and open body language. Discuss.
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