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PostPosted: Thu Oct 16, 2014 4:24 pm 
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how to not loose your mind while talking to a beautiful female?
i start sweating, my mind goes blank and i often mispronounce words...
i am tired of this... NEED HELP


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 16, 2014 4:33 pm 
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how to not loose your mind while talking to a beautiful female?
i start sweating, my mind goes blank and i often mispronounce words...
i am tired of this... NEED HELP

Practice.

You need practice talking to girls. All girls - not just the beautiful ones... Just start talking to people on the street... Old ladies, hobos, midgets... whoever.

There's no magic bullet here, man. You just have to get comfortable talking to folks, and remember that everyone's shit stinks. That beautiful chick who is causing you to have an aneurysm as you try and get the words out has smelly shit, she farts, she burps... and she's got guys in her life who are sick of her bullshit...

She's just a person.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 17, 2014 1:32 am 
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Not only that but these girls who you and I think of as "beautiful" don't feel that way about themselves a lot of times; They are constantly comparing themselves to other girls in their city and to other girls on tv/movies/etc. They also know they are one of many.

So it's really nothing special to talk to a "hot" girl vs. talking to the mailman. Both are examples of human beings.

They're all dolled up but you have to remember they have been working at and studying how to be attractive their whole lives. When you as a man can see past all that bullshit and get to the core of who she really is as a person, you will find yourself progressing further than you ever imagined possible.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 17, 2014 1:59 am 
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Hey!

The user CharlesFinley gave you a great tip: open everyone. When you're about to pay something on the supermarket talk to whoever is attending you. Do a banter line with a smile "this Oreo better not end on my hips" (with a smile at the end). Done. Doesn't matter the answer.

Ask people (attractive girls, if u want) on the street where is located a store or a library. Even if you already know the exact adress.

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If your problem remains only in the realm of good looking girls, you can do this (which I believe is gonna prove a huge social proof for you): look less to the good looking girl you're speaking with. Talk over you shoulder, staring at the horizon in front of you (like you're thinking about what she says), look to her very little during the conversation. Calibrate the right timing to look at her (to look more and more) and I promise soon enough you'll be good to go.

And remember: beauty is common, girls are competing men with other woman throug their looks all the time. You are the buyer.

Hope you improve. Go out and have some fun :wink:

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