I am into black women. Way into them. I am white.

Some black women are charming and interested. Especially those around 18. But the older they get, nothing seems to affect them, spike their emotions. Touching them on their legs, even sometimes their breasts, disagreeing, you name it. Nothing affects them. They always smile at me with their pretty white teeth. They talk to me with their sonorous voice. They are not hostile. But they behave as if they've seen it all. That nothing affects them or turns them on. No insecurity about anything and they show(!) no attraction to me whatsoever. They can be much younger than me but give me the impression that I was a child that has never been sex-worthy. But it doesn't come across as unfriendly.

What is different with those black women that I need to do?

Maybe they don't like white guys.

A line I like to use. "Excuse me, would you be offended if a guy asked you if you would date a white guy?" This is a slightly nuanced version of "Would you date a white guy?" It makes it seem a little funnier. Try starting with that opener in order to filter out the "sonorous" toothy ones(!)

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Lol I spent a lot of my time having sex with pretty little white girls because they were.. I guess I can say.. Easy. Easily impressed, easier to charm the pannies off of, lower defenses etc. And then I realized that there is really nothing like a beautiful black. At least one with her head on straight. Their love just runs a lot deeper, their capacity to love just goes to another place. This is just my perspective by the way. I've had LTRs with Asians, Blacks, Whites, Hispanics; and it could all be in my head, or I could just simply be identifying with that which looks like me, but black girls just love harder man. Sexually, emotionally, etc. Its why they get so angry when they feel they are "wronged", their emotional capacity TO ME just seems to go to another level - whether that be for the good, or for the bad(which is what we usually see). So in my opinion, if you find you a GOOD black woman, hold onto her bro. I have a couple and I wouldn't trade them in for any of the chicks I see on TV.

My only advice dude is you have to connect with them emotionally. They'll laugh the pick up lines and funny conversation off, they'll entertain it of course if you're cute. But they even fuck you, if you're cool. But if you want to connect with them, do so at a deep emotional level. I wish i had the proper words to explain it to you. Maybe if you ask me a few direct questions I can get a better answer for you.

I will say though that a number of the quality black girls I know tell me that they aren't attracted to white guys. Chris Rock talks about this in his stand up. Maybe its the subconscious slavery thing. Who knows. But if you're dope, it nots going to matter what they were attracted to. You'll show them what they are attracted to NOW. Be just cool man. And be better than everyone else.

Much love and respect though bro. You keep it real. I dig it

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You gotta think about the socio-economics of this shit.

Seriously though, I'm not sure where I read it, but a lot of this stuff traces back to the slavery days. These men didn't really have any more than the man next to them, so what could they offer a woman that another man in the same situation couldn't offer, much less what the women already have in their present situation? Even as they advanced in life, they could only get so far due to their standing in society. Game had to be developed and carried out in order to separate themselves from the rest.

Given that, they have seen it all. They have heard it all. There was this one comedian that brought up how it's almost like walking through a minefield when talking to a Black chick because you say one thing wrong and she'll be like "Oh, hell naw", and leave instantly.

Knowing this is why I am just dumbfounded when I read some of the lines some PUAs come out with. I can't help but think: you're going to get slapped, stabbed, or shot with those lines if you try them on a Black or Hispanic girl.

Despite all that, you should not be discouraged from trying to pick-up these women, just be aware. If anything, once you opened her, just be yourself. Don't try to impress her with stupid lines or corny games. Guaranteed, she'll look at you stupid and leave. Now, I'm not sure what your ultimate goal is, but if it's just sex, keep escalating (respecting her boundaries, of course).

Overall, in my opinion, Black women are pretty bold. If she objects to anything, she'll let you know it, so just be cool and don't try too hard. Likewise, she'll let you know if she likes you non-verbally, maybe even verbally.

Don't be scared, homie.

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One of the things that you have to understand about a lot of black women in America is that more often than not they are raised by only their mothers. Their father's are not seen in high esteem by their mothers and are vocal about it. They have lots and lots of conversations about what men do and what they're up to, so whenever a man approaches they automatically tend to think we are up to no good. So if you ever try to speak to one with Mystery style of approach or try to use negs, it will backfire.

What is now becoming problematic is that there is a cultural and economical view that many of them are taking. I was once told by a black woman that she was looking for Tupac in a suit. When you think about it, it's a thug with a good job. So if you break that down, this one particular wants someone who can make her feel safe and also intelligent enough to provide.

How to get one is easy however. First you have to be bold about what you want, so don't be indirect. Have strong eye contact when you talk to them. They will shit test the hell out of you to the point of where you may think it's rude and/or disinterest, but don't let it get to you and don't give up and definitely don't backpeddle. Like Mr_International said don't try to impress her with lines, but instead have character and intensity.

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I've been with lots of beautiful black women, and was in my longest relationship with one (7 years) who still remains one of my closet friends almost 16 years later. For the most part they prefer direct, but I wouldn't say rough, that's a stereotype. In some ways they're like any other women, in others not so much. The one's I"ve been with when they're upset with you hell hath no fury, there've been times I wanted to duck and cover. I wouldn't run game on them because most black woman i've met are far more street smart than the average faire.

I've dated several but none of them "sounded black" if you know what I mean. They usually sounded like preppy white girls or were foreign or something. I think that the ghetto ones or those that are really into African American culture won't go for white guys. The other ones are really just black on the outside, and there's no fundamental difference in how they act and you can game them the same.

I was at a party once and this black guy brought a ghetto black girl from work he just met. She was sitting there in front me kind of looking around uncomfortable. She almost didn't even acknowledge my presence and I forget if she was saying this to someone else or just to the air, but she was like "It's all just a bunch of white people here..." like she was incapable of interacting with us. There's a big cultural barrier there with some of these girls and they don't think white guys like them nor are they usually interested in them.

Don't believe me, go to youtube and look for any interracial videos or black women talking about white guys. If you close your eyes I guarantee they will all sound like white chicks.

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This is absolutely wrong. What happens is that there is a cultural difference and black girls are guarded because usually they sit on the negative end of that difference in the eyes of society. So they don't like their opinions being challenged or judged and don't want to feel like they are not good enough. In these situations, your job would be to make them feel comfortable and value their opinions without judgement and even acknowledge where they are coming from in certain conversations.

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To be clear, OP... you like girls who are black as far as race goes, but don't care about culture; or, you want a black chick who's immersed in the black community?

Black girls who are dressed preppy usually live in white areas and are rather similar to white skinned girls. If you just want a girl who's racially, but not culturally black, be more careful who you target.

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It's true, I sometimes was indirect with them and the more I was the more distant they became. Once I was bold and direct and even that didn't set her off-guard but she became more talkative. When I am direct I am used to having a window of surprise on a white woman's side that I can relax in to then continue. The black woman had intense eye contact with me but this time it became (or seemed to become) more hostile. I literally had no filters and was saying in her face what I thought and she became more and more angry. Then I said: "Whatever we say to each other now, it only gets more hostile. We stop this here." She said:"Yes, you are right." I could have risked her trying to punch me, but I didn't. Maybe next time I do. I prefer having her angry over not emotional.

Exactly.

On the flip side, it's not only the "White-type" Black chicks that go for men of other races. Depending on what you're looking for, Black women can also be curious as to what it's like to sleep with a man of a different race. Maybe they want to test the waters as to what it would be like to date someone that's not typically their type. You never know.

@Straightforward - I'm not sure what you said to get such a reaction, but overall, it's nothing to worry about. Sure, you can attempt to run game on her, but not every woman can be gamed. Since you may have come at her indirectly, once she started to understand what your intentions were, she may have not have been interested at that point. It happens. That will not always be the case, of course. So keep at it.

One other thing, don't even worry about the race thing. I'm not saying be insensitive to her race/culture. What I mean is just treat her like a human being. Yes, people of different cultures have different outlooks on life, but don't try and analyze her like "Ok, she's Black, so I have to do this, this, and this." No, just like any other human being, she just wants to be treated like everyone else.

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