So on Sunday night, I went out to this bar near my house with this girl that is my friend (kinda) and neighbor... I met her a few months ago, we almost hooked up the night I met her but there was something funny so I pretty much put a stop to that... Almost hooked up with her another night too, but I kinda knew she was crazy... Plus another neighbor warned me that she was crazy when he saw me going up to her apartment.

Anyway, so we went out because she always seems to talk to girls and it helps me out. So I met this one hot, cool girl. She started talking to my neighbor... Then when my neighbor went to the bathroom, the girl asked me if I wanted to smoke. I went out to smoke with her, we started talking and then the neighbor came out and joined the conversation. We ended up talking the rest of the night and hanging out, then when the bar closed, we all walked back to my apartment. The whole time, my neighbor was going on and on about my dick size and how it would never fit... like going ON AND ON... It was pissing me off kind of because I didn't want the girl to think that we were together... So we discussed how we are just friends, etc. but had fooled around a couple of times before.

Initially the girl was just going to walk with us, but then I asked her to come up and she did. So we all hung out for a bit, talked and stuff then my neighbor left. When the neighbor left, the girl was telling me that I was in a bad situation, that the neighbor was totally in love with me and that I was going to have trouble getting rid of her, etc... Which I think she is right because she said she loved me like three times. Ugh.

Anyway, so me and the girl hung out and talked until like 4:30AM then she left. We made tentative plans to hang out. I offered to walk her home, but she declined. So after she left, I texted her and told her to let me know when she got home so I knew she made it OK. She responded and said she did. I said have a good night, and she responded "Touche! Good morning" I didn't respond. The next afternoon, I texted her to ask if she got her car and everything OK (she left it parked on the street near the bar) and she responded "Indeed! Thank you" and I didn't respond.

So my plan is now to hit her up tomorrow and see if she wants to hang out Friday night (we discussed hanging out on the weekend because she is a nanny and has to be up early during the week.) But I kind of want to hit her up today... Should I wait until tomorrow? Is this shit even viable?

Sorry for the long ass story, but I wanted to frame the situation properly...

Control your urges to text whenever possible. Texting is to be used to set up dates only. Once you get more serious with her you can loosen up that standard a little bit, but generally it is best used for dates only... it seems like you get that idea for the most part.

I'd wait a day. Ask her when she is free this weekend, and let her pick the time. You handle everything else.

Ok cool, so tomorrow I'll hit her up.

We talked about movies, and we gave each other a list of movies that each other should see... So I was actually gonna watch one tonight and use that as kind of a segue into the text tomorrow.

I'm not saying this to be mean... But you're such a pussy lol

Dude... 2 girls. Talking about your cock...

WHIP IT OUT DUDE!!!

Dude, I am not a pussy... But the situation wasn't right... The girl was even saying how she wouldn't have sex w/ me tonight...

I didn't get any kind of sign that she wanted to fuck... Maybe I shoulda worked it better I'm not sure...

But I'm a fan of laying groundwork... If she wants it, she wants it... I mean I'm good for pulling my dick out and shit, but I didn't feel like there was a good opportunity.

Maybe I should have pulled it out? Fuck. Now I'm thinking I fucked it up.

The girl did keep reiterating how she wasn't going to have sex... She said it like 3 times. So I didn't feel that I could push the issue.

Also, I kinda tried to initiate.. By leaning back near her, etc, but it didn't seem good. She even said something about not fucking me, and I was like "damn, so you are never going to have sex with me??" and she didn't say No. She kind played around the topic... She said that I have to get rid of the other chick before she would consider it....

And earlier in the night, she mentioned that her ex fucked her best friend so she was super jaded.

LOL when in doubt, whip it out.

Here's what I've learned... Make it so you're going to get a good night sleep.

You had 2 girls back at your place. One left and you stayed up talking to the other one until 4:30 am.

By whipping your dick out at say 2:30 (whenever you got back to your place), you're going to get a good night sleep regardless and save yourself ALOT of time in the future.

Either the girls are going to start blowing you and you wind up fucking them both and cum all over their pretty little faces and you cuddle with 2 girls all night... OR, you wind up freaking both of them out and they leave, you go to sleep 2 hours earlier and you get the bed to yourself. You can jerk off and pass out.

Either way, you're getting a good night sleep.

lol, true.

Well I ended up texting her about an hour ago... She responded, I asked her what her weekend plans were... She said "I have to work all weekend I have to babysit Friday and Saturday night"

ugh.

I just said Well that, sucks, I was gonna see if you were around. Then I made a reference to something we talked about before, a movie she wanted me to see... Then she just responded "lol! Yeh, it's good"

guess this is the end lol

Might not be the end w/ this girl bro. Drop in with a text here and there and get her out.

Like maybe next week or something?

Yessir. She's intrigued.

Why didn't you just say "Cool. Hit me up when you're done baby sitting."

Man... you're way too gamey and it's biting you in the ass.

If in doubt whip it out ! thats class lol ! and his context are kind of ideal its a win win in bothe scenarios haha.
Especially if you have a big dick. Or you could have just said sorry girls im going for a shower back in a moment. walk out bollock naked drying your hair. Boom you want some of this D ladies.

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You think? She wasn't throwing out any signs at all... Super short responses, etc