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 Post subject: Can someone help me?
PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2014 6:56 pm 
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Hey, guys!
I am a 18 year old boy (not virgin, last time was 1,5 years ago). I want to get better with girls, lately i've become more confident. But i am not on the level i want :(
Almost every time im in a club or at a party i hook up with hot girls, but it never goes further than that. I do not get girls when i am sober and that is bothering me. I do not get nervous when i talk to girls, but i can't approach the hot one during day, in the night i have no trouble (party or club).

How can i get more confident, get more girls and so on?

I want to get laid more, but i can't seem to hook up/get to know the right girls. The only time i managed to do it i was drunk. I have never kissed a girl sober, can you guys help me? :)

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2014 7:06 pm 
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Its all a mind game bro.

I sit around talking myself up all day long dude. Its a process you have to put yourself through. You have to know you're the shit before anyone else. They come along after you've finally accepted who you are. Until then it's going to be something you have to tolerate.

And keep in mind that this is one of those things in life that is a process, not an event. Everything in the world is so INSTANT today. Developing into a better human being is not something thats as fast as the drive thru window. You have to put in the work bro.

You have to fail with hot girls sober, you have to experience the rejections and thats what develops your character. It develops your ability to stand in the face of adversity unscathed. Thats what women find most attractive. They don't want to be able to shake and rattle you. They want to know your SOLID and can be depended on at anytime. They're not as strong as us in more ways than just physical. So they're looking for that strength in you. And the only way to have that is to develop it.

Take the risk - take the failures with the successes. And you'll be making moves toward becoming the man you want to be.

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 Post subject: Re: Can someone help me?
PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2014 7:15 pm 
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Its all a mind game bro.

I sit around talking myself up all day long dude. Its a process you have to put yourself through. You have to know you're the shit before anyone else. They come along after you've finally accepted who you are. Until then it's going to be something you have to tolerate.

And keep in mind that this is one of those things in life that is a process, not an event. Everything in the world is so INSTANT today. Developing into a better human being is not something thats as fast as the drive thru window. You have to put in the work bro.

You have to fail with hot girls sober, you have to experience the rejections and thats what develops your character. It develops your ability to stand in the face of adversity unscathed. Thats what women find most attractive. They don't want to be able to shake and rattle you. They want to know your SOLID and can be depended on at anytime. They're not as strong as us in more ways than just physical. So they're looking for that strength in you. And the only way to have that is to develop it.

Take the risk - take the failures with the successes. And you'll be making moves toward becoming the man you want to be.
The thing is that i think i may be wierd for a 18 year old to go around approaching girls in the middle of the day :P
I am physically strong and well trained, i usually don't care what people think about me, sort of giving a fuck in what happens. If they don't like me, i don't care. But when it comes to approach girls and trying to hook up and get laid sober i freeze out and don't know what to do. I usually fuck up when texting, girls seem to loose interest in me quickly. tips?

What do you mean talking yourself up? how do you do it?


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 Post subject: Re: Can someone help me?
PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2014 7:31 pm 
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Well I believe my thoughts become my words, my words become my actions, my actions become my habits, my habits become my character, and my character becomes my destiny. So by talking myself up I mean by speaking and thinking of the things I want to be out loud. Constantly throw positive statements around.

" I'm the greatest thing thats ever happened to this planet "

" I'm so a cool charismatic guy "

" Women love me "

" I love women"

" I enjoy having sex with beautiful women "

" I'm going to make love to a woman whether clothed or unclothed. If we're talking I'll make love to her mind, if we're touching i'll make love to her body, and if we're apart i'll make love to her in my mind"

" I am powerful "

I approach women every day "

" Women approach me "

On and on.. Constantly repeat and throw those things into the air out loud throughout the day and you'll see your world begin to change.

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 Post subject: Re: Can someone help me?
PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2014 7:59 pm 
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Well I believe my thoughts become my words, my words become my actions, my actions become my habits, my habits become my character, and my character becomes my destiny. So by talking myself up I mean by speaking and thinking of the things I want to be out loud. Constantly throw positive statements around.

" I'm the greatest thing thats ever happened to this planet "

" I'm so a cool charismatic guy "

" Women love me "

" I love women"

" I enjoy having sex with beautiful women "

" I'm going to make love to a woman whether clothed or unclothed. If we're talking I'll make love to her mind, if we're touching i'll make love to her body, and if we're apart i'll make love to her in my mind"

" I am powerful "

I approach women every day "

" Women approach me "

On and on.. Constantly repeat and throw those things into the air out loud throughout the day and you'll see your world begin to change.
I am going to try this out! Will this help me get better with girls and so on?


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 Post subject: Re: Can someone help me?
PostPosted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 12:00 pm 
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Well I believe my thoughts become my words, my words become my actions, my actions become my habits, my habits become my character, and my character becomes my destiny. So by talking myself up I mean by speaking and thinking of the things I want to be out loud. Constantly throw positive statements around.

" I'm the greatest thing thats ever happened to this planet "

" I'm so a cool charismatic guy "

" Women love me "

" I love women"

" I enjoy having sex with beautiful women "

" I'm going to make love to a woman whether clothed or unclothed. If we're talking I'll make love to her mind, if we're touching i'll make love to her body, and if we're apart i'll make love to her in my mind"

" I am powerful "

I approach women every day "

" Women approach me "

On and on.. Constantly repeat and throw those things into the air out loud throughout the day and you'll see your world begin to change.
I am going to try this out! Will this help me get better with girls and so on?
Yes. In time. Its like asking me if lifting weights will make you stronger. In time they will - not right away. Its a process not and event.

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