Been dating this new girl for 7 months now. She tries to get me jealous at times and is VERY insecure. (I mean VERY) Like mentioning guys who wanted her number, guys she is texting, ect.

Well the other day in a small group we were talking about stereotypes. She has dated a black dude before a long time ago. Well the inevitable dick size one came up, and maybe in a small bit of insecurity myself I said "that is actually a myth, according to studies" and she smiles with a shit-eating grin and says "not in my experience" while looking at me.

I know she was doing this to get me jealous/insecure. It kind of contradicts what she has said before too (her experience is that height matters and I am at least as tall as this kid) plus I've watched porn with her and 7-8 inch dudes she is amazed at how big those are (aka she never had that big) I'm just over 6 myself, but feeling a bit insecure right now.

Is this something chicks would normally lie about to get a guy insecure? I normally am extremely self assured, decisive, and high status to her, and I think she might have lied to knock me down a peg...at least I HOPE it was a possible lie
another time she said my size was dime a dozen, so that kinda means the same as everyone else anyway right?

well, she got to me a little bit, just can't let her show it at all! I didn't react when she said it

to be honest women are evil being (just laying) but i know ALOT of girls who told me they like to make their bf insecure so they can have them 'whipped", once a girl knows she has you (and it's easier than you think) she'll keep doing it........my advice to you is to genuinely not care, don't try to make her jealous, don't get mad, just not care....sounds hard right (well it is) but you have to put yourself in the mindset that not only are you the shit but you're the best she had, best she'll ever have, and best she'll ever want....also look at her as replaceable...never be to the point where you feel like yo NEED her

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At the end of the day she's with you, so she can give you all this shit about other guys having bigger dicks.

If I were you I'd just throw in a sly comment like it doesn't matter, or throw it right back in her face and say, "yeah, the last girl i was with said she had an eleven incher and that I still fucked better than him, it's all about technique babe."

If you say something like that in a playful tone, she won't bring it up again, and will feel insecure herself.

As a side note, the fact that she goes out of her way to make you jealous is a warning sign- her shit stinks dude. Proceed with caution.

EXACTLY

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

But what i want to know is, was she lying to make me jealous or truthful to make me jealous.....i hope it was a lie because she sensed my insecurity in the moment

She was probably speaking the truth. She has had bigger dicks. Live with it. She is rude though.

What makes you think that? Why was she "probably" telling the truth?

no offense, but I hesitate to believe you because of your tendencies in the past to kinda assume the worst or say the worst things as responses to other people's threads.

Yeah dude she was telling the truth... girls are evil as the guy above says but i dont think she would lie about that just to make you jealous. I would definitely go with the advice and make her insecure about the last girl you fucked and how good she sucked dick or something.

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why wouldn't she lie about that? Wouldn't that be the perfect opportunity, after this cocky guy leaves himself open to something that you can get to him with? "That is a myth, that they do" and she knew I knew she was with one.

I can assume she was telling the truth because most girls admit that black guys have bigger than average dicks. But that doesn't matter... Why do you care if the black guy was bigger than you?

dude...that is a fucking myth! look up any study

So your not going by what my girl said or the context, you are going by that stereotype?

Black guys have showers not growers, which is what made that myth stick. They are no bigger when erect in America. They have showers because the sun would harm their skin in our evolutionary past if they had growers. The organ evolved to have a bigger surface area WHEN flaccid

man im black and im average (why is this even a fucking topic) so calm down, she's just trying to hurt you, it might be the truth but like i said don't worry about it just think about all the girls you've made orgasm, all the girls that loves your dick....and yea in a friendly way just say something like "spanish girls have the wettis pussy" or "my last gf didn't complain" or something like the guy above said

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

might be the truth? are you saying you think it is?

Oh... This is the guy who would make those black dick jealous gf threads... Dude chill on the dick stuff. Look, ask girls.. Black guys have bigger dicks (generally). Why do you even care?

read my last comment, and look up the studies

my point of this thread was more about the circumstances (given we had made each other jealous in every way possible prior to this event, like with other people) I felt like it was a great opportunity for her to just chime in and say that