What do you think they are?

It may be kind of difficult to rank them as we are all here for different reasons, but what would your ranking be?

in no particular order i would say

inner game (including being outcome independent)
good conversationalist
balls (ability to go sexual/direct)
fun/playful
looks

I ask because I feel like my storytelling and conversation could use some fine tuning. I have the others down but my game isn't where it should be.

I'm trying to figure out what else I could be missing.

this post may be a bit arbitrary but i'm interested in what you all think nonetheless.